trueluV Posted May 27, 2010 Posted May 27, 2010 this is about a guy i met a few weeks ago at a friend's party. Last weekend we had a plan to meet, but he got really sick we canceled it and haven't come up with a new plan yet. (posted a thread earlier regarding this). my question now is: should i wait for him to contact me and make the next move (come up with a plan to meet) , or should i contact him? to be more specific: he's the one who asked my number, invited me to another party afterwards (just me from the previous group). fast forward to last weekend: i texted him and asked if he wants to join me at my friend's party and he replied he's really sick but he wants to go. i assumed he's sick and didn't contact him for details, though i was waiting for his text. texted him later that night and he replied right away saying he's still sick and how did the party go. he sounded bad so i told him to talk some other time, and he ended saying 'see you again soon'. that's how we ended. should i wait for him, or should i send him a short text asking if he's recovered and mention see you soon.? i can't think now...your suggestions would help a lot!
Ihavenoidea Posted May 27, 2010 Posted May 27, 2010 seems you have done a lot of initiating communication. Try texting him again to maybe make plans. I thik communication should be mutual though.
legallyblonde289 Posted May 27, 2010 Posted May 27, 2010 i dont think you should text him. it seems like its been mostly you initiating contact. if he's interested, he'll text/call you.
Author trueluV Posted May 27, 2010 Author Posted May 27, 2010 okay,,,, maybe i'll wait for him to contact me this time. he did ask me out a few times, but this is after i texted him. i'll wait and see. thanks guys !
Ichi-boned Posted May 27, 2010 Posted May 27, 2010 this is about a guy i met a few weeks ago at a friend's party. Last weekend we had a plan to meet, but he got really sick we canceled it and haven't come up with a new plan yet. (posted a thread earlier regarding this). my question now is: should i wait for him to contact me and make the next move (come up with a plan to meet) , or should i contact him? to be more specific: he's the one who asked my number, invited me to another party afterwards (just me from the previous group). fast forward to last weekend: i texted him and asked if he wants to join me at my friend's party and he replied he's really sick but he wants to go. i assumed he's sick and didn't contact him for details, though i was waiting for his text. texted him later that night and he replied right away saying he's still sick and how did the party go. he sounded bad so i told him to talk some other time, and he ended saying 'see you again soon'. that's how we ended. should i wait for him, or should i send him a short text asking if he's recovered and mention see you soon.? i can't think now...your suggestions would help a lot! Text him. Men respond better when the females initiates the communication.
Author trueluV Posted May 28, 2010 Author Posted May 28, 2010 Text him. Men respond better when the females initiates the communication. i'm so confused now! the answers are mixed. of course there is no right answer, but what should i do? He is the one who got interested in me first and asked me out a few times, but as for the texts, i initiated most of the time. (he does reply right away) in this situation, should i wait to see if he texts me first and ask me out-to know his interest level? thinking, if he's truly interested in me, he'll ask me out?
Author trueluV Posted May 28, 2010 Author Posted May 28, 2010 so, this guy was sick over the weekend, maybe now too? guess he recovered. we sort of ended the texting saying, me: get better, him: see you soon. in this case, should i text him first and ask him how he's feeling now? or should i think if he is feeling better he will text me?
CLC2008 Posted May 28, 2010 Posted May 28, 2010 this is about a guy i met a few weeks ago at a friend's party. Last weekend we had a plan to meet, but he got really sick we canceled it and haven't come up with a new plan yet. (posted a thread earlier regarding this). my question now is: should i wait for him to contact me and make the next move (come up with a plan to meet) , or should i contact him? to be more specific: he's the one who asked my number, invited me to another party afterwards (just me from the previous group). fast forward to last weekend: i texted him and asked if he wants to join me at my friend's party and he replied he's really sick but he wants to go. i assumed he's sick and didn't contact him for details, though i was waiting for his text. texted him later that night and he replied right away saying he's still sick and how did the party go. he sounded bad so i told him to talk some other time, and he ended saying 'see you again soon'. that's how we ended. should i wait for him, or should i send him a short text asking if he's recovered and mention see you soon.? i can't think now...your suggestions would help a lot! It sounds like you keep inviting one another to parties, and you met at a party? Doesn't sound really "date-ish" to me. Why not ask him if he'd like to meet for dinner or something?
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