Ihavenoidea Posted May 26, 2010 Posted May 26, 2010 As we all know women get hit on a lot at various places. Women bartenders also get hit on all the time so it makes it a bit of a challenge to get a date from one, atleast it is for me but i dont go around asking out bartenders much elss go into bars. Anyways, I work out at a gym everday and there is this really attractive woman that works there and she is always happy to see me and talk to me. I figure this is just her personality as I dont want to read into it. Anyways I was thinking of asking her to dinner or something but I was wondering if they get hit on all the time similarly to bartenders. She is either interested or not but it seems most of these types of situations the woman is more guarded. I dont know what do you think
jadepeony Posted May 26, 2010 Posted May 26, 2010 I have a friend who works at a gym and she tells me that it's just a customer service thing to be friendly. It could just be professionalism, but you could find out if she's like that with other people in the gym. Just talk to her more and figure out if she's really interested in you. Who knows, maybe she secretly thinks you're really hot too.
Author Ihavenoidea Posted May 26, 2010 Author Posted May 26, 2010 I have a friend who works at a gym and she tells me that it's just a customer service thing to be friendly. It could just be professionalism, but you could find out if she's like that with other people in the gym. Just talk to her more and figure out if she's really interested in you. Who knows, maybe she secretly thinks you're really hot too. haha I can't say that I am hot, been told I am handsome quite a few times from women other than my mom though. lol Ya shes probably just being professional, I will just play it by ear. Some women feel aukward around men they have turned down and I don't want her to stop being the way she is after I ask her out. I'll wait for her to make a move and if not, I guess I'll just enjoy the smoothies lol
USMCHokie Posted May 26, 2010 Posted May 26, 2010 Golds Gym in Woodbridge, VA Very cool. I work out at the Golds in South Arlington.
Author Ihavenoidea Posted May 26, 2010 Author Posted May 26, 2010 I assume you are a Marine from your name and pic. I expected you to be closer to where I am considering the base thats near by.
xpaperxcutx Posted May 26, 2010 Posted May 26, 2010 Working and working out at the gym are two completely different. I can be friendly with both a fellow gym goer and my aerobics teacher ( a really hot hispanic guy who teaches zumba:love:). But I would never think about hitting on my teacher because I can see that he gets hit on by most of the other members, but out of politeness, he takes it in stride and brushes them off. I don't understand why people would think it's a good thing to hit on people at the first sign of friendliness especially in a place where you go almost everyday. It's like choosing to date a coworker with the risk of getting fired, or worst end up in a sticky situation when you break up.
malala7 Posted May 26, 2010 Posted May 26, 2010 Very cool. I work out at the Golds in South Arlington. the one by Giant? It's a small world
Author Ihavenoidea Posted May 26, 2010 Author Posted May 26, 2010 Working and working out at the gym are two completely different. I can be friendly with both a fellow gym goer and my aerobics teacher ( a really hot hispanic guy who teaches zumba:love:). But I would never think about hitting on my teacher because I can see that he gets hit on by most of the other members, but out of politeness, he takes it in stride and brushes them off. I don't understand why people would think it's a good thing to hit on people at the first sign of friendliness especially in a place where you go almost everyday. It's like choosing to date a coworker with the risk of getting fired, or worst end up in a sticky situation when you break up. exactly why im letting her make the move
alphamale Posted May 26, 2010 Posted May 26, 2010 I dont know what do you think i think you should bite the bullet and ask her out. the worst she can say is no and then you can find another gym to work out at
Author Ihavenoidea Posted May 26, 2010 Author Posted May 26, 2010 I think im going to pass on this one and let her come to me, there are more women out there.
alphamale Posted May 26, 2010 Posted May 26, 2010 I think im going to pass on this one and let her come to me, there are more women out there. dude chicks don't come to you...you have to pursue
Author Ihavenoidea Posted May 26, 2010 Author Posted May 26, 2010 lol you'd be surprised. Ill play it by ear and feel her out and then might try a move
jadepeony Posted May 27, 2010 Posted May 27, 2010 Yea, that's right. Just treat her like any normal female acquaintance and if she drops a hint, go for it.
USMCHokie Posted May 27, 2010 Posted May 27, 2010 I assume you are a Marine from your name and pic. I expected you to be closer to where I am considering the base thats near by. Yea. But I'm up in DC...near the Pentagon... Like alpha said, you need to be proactive and ask her out. What's the worst that can happen...? However, I do believe that you need to build up a repoire with her before asking her out, especially in an environment like a gym...but it looks like she's already comfortable around...now's the time to act...
USMCHokie Posted May 27, 2010 Posted May 27, 2010 the one by Giant? It's a small world Indeed, the very same...
Author Ihavenoidea Posted May 27, 2010 Author Posted May 27, 2010 Yea. But I'm up in DC...near the Pentagon... Like alpha said, you need to be proactive and ask her out. What's the worst that can happen...? However, I do believe that you need to build up a repoire with her before asking her out, especially in an environment like a gym...but it looks like she's already comfortable around...now's the time to act... I agree, im not in a rush for this one given the circumstances so i will give it a little more time then move in.
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