Crazy Magnet Posted May 27, 2010 Posted May 27, 2010 Ok, I see. Then it is about attitude really. He is a selfish lover. And people's attitude and quality simply show up in their sex activity. If it is an attitude matter, then a person can strive to be a better man or woman, learn how to connect with others, and be less selfish in all areas. If it is a pure skill matter, people will dwell on having many sexual partners, in their mind, the more sex partners, the more desirable she/he becomes, according to many of posters here, but this isn't true. As I understand here, if a person trys to be less selfish, and be more concern about the other, even if he is less experienced, sooner or later he will become one excellent lover. The point here isn't in if he has more sex partners or not, the point here is What kind of person he is, all in one's mind and heart. And if one wants to be married to one person A one day, what is the point that this one has many experiences with B, C, D.....? What is the point that this one learns so well about B, C, D.... in the sex area? Isn't A an individual who are different from B, C, D....? This is so true. My current BF has had about half as many partners as I have but he's a fantastic lover. He has been in a lot of long term relationships, so he's had plenty of opportunity to learn and to connect and it really does make a difference. I personally think people learn a lot more about sex over a two year relationship than they do in a bunch of one night stands.
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