CARL45 Posted May 26, 2010 Posted May 26, 2010 I have been dating a woman for a past couple of weeks. We have rapport each other. We have had fun on dates and have talked. The problem began last week when I tried to Joke with her. She normally reacts by laughing, but now she just gives me a stair. I get in a car with her and I don't even get a "whats up how are you doing" I get nothing like I'm not there or something. I have the feeling she's playing hard to get because I have seen women doing this before to me. I think she still likes me because she will always sit next to me when ever we go to an event. Now I need some advice on how to approach this situation.
FoxMulder Posted May 26, 2010 Posted May 26, 2010 I would move on. Women who play hard to get like that are not relationship material and never will be.
Sazerac Posted May 26, 2010 Posted May 26, 2010 I don't know what the joke was you used but it is entirely possible that you offended her. If she's shutting you down, she's not playing hard to get, she's playing unreachable. I'd ask point-blank if there's something up. If she refuses to answer and keeps giving you the cold shoulder, there's your answer. If she gives some clue as to why she's distanced herself, you can try to make amends, but I wouldn't hold your breath if I were you. This sounds like she's moving on.
pinky92630 Posted May 26, 2010 Posted May 26, 2010 I have to agree with Sazerac. You said you've been dating this girl for a couple of weeks, so you may not know her very well. Chances are whatever joke you made offended her. I know someone who claims he's teasing or joking when he makes offensive comments, and when I tell him he's being offensive, he tells me he's just teasing. Just ask her outright if the joke you make offended her in any way.
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