jones24 Posted May 26, 2010 Posted May 26, 2010 I have been talking to this girl in one of my classes for the past few weeks. I like her but there is one problem she has a boyfriend lately she has been acting differently. The other day she asked me what I was doing over the weekend. When I told her what I was doing just got this jealous tone in her voice like she wanted to do what I was doing This has happend for the last 2 weekends. Also she laughs at all my jokes I know I am not that funny. Plus I catch her looking at me when I turn towards her even to talk to the person next to me she looks away and sometimes plays with her hair. Sometimes when she comes in to class she will look at me and it will seem like shes upset and everytime I ask her if shes ok she says its nothing. Why is she acting like this?
Author jones24 Posted May 26, 2010 Author Posted May 26, 2010 sorry i forgot to mention who old we both are I Am 25 and she is 22
MyNameIsJane Posted May 26, 2010 Posted May 26, 2010 Just going off the details you wrote - she kind of sounds like the type of girl that wants attention from guys despite being taken. It definitely sounds like she is into YOU specifically, and maybe wants you to want her, ie ask her to hang out on the weekend/invite her to whatever it is you are telling her you are doing. But she is in a relationship, so you have to keep in mind that she may just be the type of girl who wants to be wanted (and who doesn't want to be wanted...) and isn't liking that she doesn't have you fawning over her
jadepeony Posted May 26, 2010 Posted May 26, 2010 Personally, I don't think you should try to do anything about her because she's already in a relationship. But firstly, figure out if she's like this with other people. Some people are just naturally friendlier, and even if she's in a relationship, she can still find other guys attractive and not do anything about it (maybe that's why she looks at you?). As to why she's acting differently around you and seems sad, it could be that she's having problems with her boyfriend. Maybe her boyfriend doesn't like it when she gets close to other guys? Maybe she's attracted to you, but doesn't want anything to happen between you guys because she has a boyfriend. It could be so many different things. Why not just ask her?
Pfiend101 Posted May 26, 2010 Posted May 26, 2010 If I were in your shoes, I would not pursue. As I wouldn't want some other guy to go after my girl. Which has happened in the past.
alphamale Posted May 26, 2010 Posted May 26, 2010 Why is she acting like this? because shes a girl and wants attention
brainygirl Posted May 26, 2010 Posted May 26, 2010 If she's in a relationships its kinda sleezey to try to go for her, don't you think? And it sounds like she'd be a high drama girl to date anyway. Find another one, just my suggestion.
Author jones24 Posted May 27, 2010 Author Posted May 27, 2010 i am not going to persue her it is just that this always happens to me i start liking a girl but then I find out that she has a boyfriend. i have never acted on my feelings when i do find out I am just tired of getting hurt
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