bluryy Posted May 26, 2010 Posted May 26, 2010 Hello all, i'm sure in a relationship, there are bound to be ups and downs. But how are you guys going to consider what is too much, when should be the breaking point and when you should tolerate the nonsense from your SO? Just a casual discussion.
PandorasBox Posted May 26, 2010 Posted May 26, 2010 Can you tell us a little more about your situation? Do you feel you have had enough and are at your breaking point? IMO, I think its different for different people. It depends on what it is as far as what I will and will not tolerate and for how long.
TaraMaiden Posted May 26, 2010 Posted May 26, 2010 I think !"Enough is enough" when you reach an impasse that has the potential to impact on your lives, long-term. One of these is Religious differences. Another is the desire - or otherwise - to have children. Yet another may be a discovery of a sexual trait hitherto kept secret, such as homosexuality, transvestitism or a "kink" the other finds unacceptable. And yet another may be your spouse sleeping with your sibling, or worse, your parent. Most other things are negotiable. A couple of the ones above may also be....
Nikki Sahagin Posted May 26, 2010 Posted May 26, 2010 I think enough is enough when a significant period of time has passed with no change. If you have expressed a desire for your partner to change something necessary for the benefit of your relationship and they have not taken steps to do so, this can push people to breaking point.
Lauriebell82 Posted May 27, 2010 Posted May 27, 2010 I think enough is enough when a significant period of time has passed with no change. If you have expressed a desire for your partner to change something necessary for the benefit of your relationship and they have not taken steps to do so, this can push people to breaking point. Yeah, I agree with this. I was in this situation with my ex boyfriend. I just finally couldn't take it anymore and broke up with him..the hardest thing I have had to do. I also think enough is enough when it becomes a daily struggle..like every minute of the day is spent fighting/arguing/nagging to the point where you aren't even enjoying your life anymore. Of course this situation can be worked out, ONLY if the people are willing to do so, as noted above.
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