He broke up after 7 years and immediately tries to date a friend of ours...

[elizabeth26]

My boyfriend of 7+ years broke up with me the day before mothers day. He cited the fact that he hasn't loved me for a year and that we argued occasionally as his main reasons, followed by a "we aren't good for each other". I was really more angry than anything, he has never expressed these emotions to me. He said he loves me and will always love me but he isn't "in love" with me. The only thing he's expressed to me is that he wanted me to show that I "wanted him" more when we were physical. I showed him a very good time, he seemed happy. We had a very playful relationship. We could watch t.v. together (I would sometimes insist on something we BOTH wanted to watch, of course, but I watched his b-ball games and football games). He seemed completely heartbroken and torn-up inside. Apparently he's been trying to break up for some time, but has been unable to follow through. Throughout our relationship he has been pretty selfish, buying whatever he wanted whenever he wanted. He bought me things too, but I don't really want things. He has paid my phone and bought me an iphone and a macbook. I just wanted his time and spontinaity back. We dated through my high school years. We had some crazy adventures... We walked around my small town, snuck off and had some incredibly hot times. Driving in his chevelle and parking out on the edge of town. He was blown away that I initiated our first time. He almost couldn't breathe. He is my first love, I know we haven't been the best for each other at all times but when things were hard to bear, he was my rock. I did the same for him.

[ADF]

Whenever someone ends a relationship with you out of the blue, you can always count on one thing: the out-of-the-blue element is on your part only. Your ex fed you a series of pretty lame lines. I think the fact he is already dating someone else is pretty suggestive. My bet is there is a lot he hasn't told you.