PlumPudding Posted May 26, 2010 Posted May 26, 2010 (edited) Haha umm, well I have a kind of awkward, random question here. So this boy and I have been dating for about 7 months, and neither of us like to be very "mushy gushy." As in, pet names? Ohhhh we both kind of gag whenever they're used. We're affectionate in private, but we never go that "fluffy, oodly woodly" direction. I'm also very insecure and shy so I'm not sure what the heck I'm doing this for. Oh, we're both 19, by the way. It'll be his 20th birthday. Well his birthday is this week and tomorrow I'm traveling up to see him (he's about 2 hours away) for a night or two. I didn't really plan on doing anything special for him, mostly because I'm super embarrassed to even give him a compliment (or accept one for that matter) let alone do anything special. But seeing as it's his birthday and I probably won't see him over the rest of the summer, I figured I would. It started when I was putting these glow in the dark stars all over my car and I thought maybe I could get some glow in the dark paint and write him a happy birthday card telling him how awesome a person he is and how I admire him. What I would do is say he needs to look at my glow in the dark car (to be honest I'm SUPER excited about all these stars in the first place) and then when he gets out there I'd tell him to flip down the sun blind and the letter/card would unfold in the glow in the dark paint. Is this way too overboard for a relationship of this length? I'm super embarrassed about it but in a way want to do it. I'm afraid he might be turned away at how much I worked on it for him? Or is that just my insecurity talking? Any advice would be muchly appreciated! Edited May 26, 2010 by PlumPudding
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