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I don't know if I should give up or stay

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Hello Everyone,

 

I'm in a situation where I don't know if I should stay or go. I met her during one of my lecture classes in January. We began talking around March and everything was going well. She would call me baby, hug, and kiss me in public (french kissing). Everything seemed well but I began to notice that she really hasn't put in much effort. I know were not serious but I call or text her on a daily basis to see if she's alright, but I don't get the same concern or effort form her. I've also noticed that she's been flirting with other guys pretty heavy. Not too long ago we went out on a date and had a great time, we then went to watch a movie. She then stated after this great date that we were never in a relationship and that she's getting over her ex of nearly seven years, but that she really likes me. My question is should I leave even if it would hurt or stay a bit. Even though she says she likes me she doesn't show it much, but I do like her.

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sugarmomma Established Member

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So you guys nevr esptablished exclusivity or being official? If not, I could see where she would still be looking into keeping her options open. Also, she is healing or trying to figure it all out from the last r. You may want to let her know how you feel then back up and let her come to you.

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I know were not serious but I call or text her on a daily basis to see if she's alright, but I don't get the same concern or effort form her.

It's a little confusing. If it's not serious, then you don't have anything to "give up" nor do you have anyplace to "stay".

Also. There is already daily contact being initiated by you, and that's more than enough when there's nothing serious.

Also. It may be unrealistic to expect "concern or effort" from someone who is not serious about you.

 

I would suggest either make it serious (at least, find out if she's interested in that) or realize that it's not serious (so you can't put any expectations on her for "concern or effort", and maybe you'd then want to also cut down on your daily calling or texting.)

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