lovetoloveu2 Posted May 26, 2010 Posted May 26, 2010 I need advice badly! Help! Me and my ex do NOT speak AT ALL. But last week we spoke briefly over text and i decided to surprise him with an unexpected visit. Well what I didnt expect was a woman to be there-especially the woman he was with before me. They have been on and off for 11 years! Well, I didnt say anything, I just left and I called him asking how he could do that to me-I cried, and was really upset. Well he came over to talk about things and he spent the night. I was in heaven! He also told me that that woman was there to stay in his life-and that she was very important to her and he has deep feelings for her and has feelings for me but not enough to pursue me-WHAT DOES THAT MEAN?!! Well he spent the night and like I said I was in heaven!! Well here we are today and I havent heard from him-its been three days. I called him and he said well ______, we dont speak, and i told u how i felt, its human nature to have feelings for someone you were once involved with but AGAIN i wont or will pursue you. Look at the whole pie and not just one night of me coming to visit you! WHat does all of this mean?!?!?!?!?!?!?!
GrayClouds Posted May 26, 2010 Posted May 26, 2010 I need advice badly! Help! Me and my ex do NOT speak AT ALL. But last week we spoke briefly over text and i decided to surprise him with an unexpected visit. Well what I didnt expect was a woman to be there-especially the woman he was with before me. They have been on and off for 11 years! Well, I didnt say anything, I just left and I called him asking how he could do that to me-I cried, and was really upset. Well he came over to talk about things and he spent the night. I was in heaven! He also told me that that woman was there to stay in his life-and that she was very important to her and he has deep feelings for her and has feelings for me but not enough to pursue me-WHAT DOES THAT MEAN?!! Well he spent the night and like I said I was in heaven!! Well here we are today and I havent heard from him-its been three days. I called him and he said well ______, we dont speak, and i told u how i felt, its human nature to have feelings for someone you were once involved with but AGAIN i wont or will pursue you. Look at the whole pie and not just one night of me coming to visit you! WHat does all of this mean?!?!?!?!?!?!?! Sorry to say but it means your willing to accept his belief that your not worth real respect. It also mean it time to let this guy go and start doing some real work on your own self esteem, to grow into the women who know her worth and will not sacrifice it for the attention of some guy. It is time to find the courage to love yourself and grow. Start by reading this link: So you want a second chance? I wish you well.
SoleMate Posted May 26, 2010 Posted May 26, 2010 WHat does all of this mean?!?!?!?!?!?!?! He likes having two women. Men are quite simple and straightforward like that. :-|
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