enchanted771 Posted May 25, 2010 Posted May 25, 2010 My friend and I invited this guy out with us. We all hung out. My friend knows i like him so she took off for a couple hours, and we had some alone time. Then we all hung out together very late. He and i kissed. Then when he left, he kissed me 5 more times. But no " i had fun" "ill call you" nothing. I had a feeling he liked me before, but he never asked me out even though he knows i am fond of him. Maybe he just thinks of me as a friend, I dont know. Anyways, i had texted him to make sure he got home okay, and that was like 2 days ago. He hasnt tried to correspond with me at all, but hasnt deleted me from his facebook either lol.
Ellezz Posted May 26, 2010 Posted May 26, 2010 I think he is interested, why would he kiss you so many times otherwise? Unless he is the kind of guy who kisses around... Why don't you try to call him, or leave a message on his wall of facebook? like "I had fun the other night, we should do it again some time", see his reaction.
magda Posted May 26, 2010 Posted May 26, 2010 Did he ever reply to your text? If not, I think he was not interested. He might be not interested even if he did reply because you sending the text I think showed clear interest. If he is not too shy to kiss, he can at least call you or text you -- you already broke the seal on that. Plus it was technically you who invited him out and orchestrated the date with your friend. I personally would let it go and wait until I run into him again, for dignity's sake. Maybe there's potential in the future but it is possible he was just "trying you out" since he knew you liked him, and then your friend left and that makes your stance pretty obvious. I would stand down and see what, if anything, he does. His move.
BobSacamento Posted May 26, 2010 Posted May 26, 2010 Don't text him or call him for crying out loud. He is aware of you, so don't look/act desperate.
Author enchanted771 Posted May 27, 2010 Author Posted May 27, 2010 Thanks guys. I haven't initiated any contact. Just hope he doesn't act cold towards me and passive-aggressive when I see him. It won't be this week. Usually I would see him at the place my friend and I frequent once a week, but I decided to sit this week out. He has a different personality. Kind of eccentric, and odd. He is very hard to figure out. He wouldn't do things that most average people would do. May be too much of a headache.
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