fitzy30 Posted May 25, 2010 Posted May 25, 2010 i met a girl in january who was fantastic but she had a boyfriend of 2 yrs..she broke up with her boyfriend a month after she met me cause she said i cared about her and i was nice to her.she said her ex was making her miserable and she said they always had arguments so she started something with me cause i was so nice to her and i respected her..we emailed and used facebook to keep in contact while she was still going out with him... she broke up with me 2 months ago and said she thought we were not right for each other and that it was bad timing... During the time we went out she made fun of her ex and called him alot of names as he kept emailing her saying she cheated on him with me which we never did.she always said she would never go back to him and he was a toxic boyfriend and she never went back to any of her exes.. During the breakup i texted her a good few times..i didnt see her for 2 months until last sunday i met her in a pub with her friends too my shock she said she was back with her ex...i was heartbroken when she said it...but we ended up getting drunk and we hugged alot and had i kiss..she got into a taxi with me at the end of the night to come back to my place but at the very last minute she changed her mind and ended home..then the next day she texted me this.. she said she was disappointed in yourself and it would have been stupid if she ended up back at my place and she was glad she did as it wouldnt have been fair on both of us especially her boyfriend...then that night she sent me a face book message saying.. i feel so ashamed and awful about last night. i feel sick thinkin about my behaviour. to be honest i think it be for the best if i block u on facebook and delete ur number. i cant risk gettin drunk like that again and jeopardizing my relationship . obviously if we run into eachother i wont ignore u, but id prefer to cut any other contact. i hope u havent said it to anyone about me nearly ending up back at urs.i cant risk it getting back to my boyfriend. i feel like i cheated on him. I am so in love with this girl it hurts me..i cant see her and the ex ever working it out,she said he has changed..yeah but for how long...should i let her go??
USMCHokie Posted May 26, 2010 Posted May 26, 2010 should i let her go?? Yes. You should always be careful when dealing with girls that are still in a relationship. If they are willing to leave someone for you, it will only be a matter of time before they leave you for someone else, or in your case, leave you to go back to an ex.
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