Kris30 Posted May 25, 2010 Posted May 25, 2010 If you didn't read my post yesterday then you might want to for some background: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t232394/ Well, he hasn't contacted me since I talked to him yesterday (when he was acting weird). He usually texts me every evening before bed at least once, every morning, and throughout the day several times. No calls or texts at all. AND just now I logged onto the website I met him on (we met online) and he was online. Yes, I was sort of checking up on him to see if he's been on. I hadn't been on in forever. He told me he was going to take his profile off, but not only is it still there, but he was on the site. Why would he be on there if he wants to be exclusive with me? I'm really starting to think he's a player. I'm pissed. HE was the one who wanted to be exclusive, then I had sex with him, now he's being weird, and I'm wondering what I should do. Thinking of breaking up with him. What should I do now?
xpaperxcutx Posted May 25, 2010 Posted May 25, 2010 I need more info- what site did you guys meet off of? Okaycupid? How long have you been dating before he initiated exclusivity? It's sounds fishy to me that he immediately stopped contacting after having sex with you. I mean it's exactly the type of MO a player has when they bed 'em then leave 'em.
shazam Posted May 25, 2010 Posted May 25, 2010 I agree. He may have lied when he claimed to want exclusivity, which would be a super low and dirty way to get you to agree to have sex with him. Sounds like he is on to the next conquest...
Author Kris30 Posted May 25, 2010 Author Posted May 25, 2010 We met him on pof and dated a very short time before becoming exclusive...
xpaperxcutx Posted May 25, 2010 Posted May 25, 2010 We met him on pof and dated a very short time before becoming exclusive... Honestly, I've never used POF but I've used OKC. If they're any similar, I assume POF might also have trolls on there whom are looking for ONSs. In fact, I've seen profiles on OKC of people whom have pasted on Craigslist in past ( back when it was still somewhat credible as a dating site). I'm sorry Kris, but I think this guy was looking to sleep around and he used the exclusivity bit to get you to say yes. But then again, I could be wrong and he could just be busy. Either way, I still want to know one thing, how long exactly have the both of you been dating? You said a very short time but can you be more specific?
Author Kris30 Posted May 25, 2010 Author Posted May 25, 2010 We dated less than a month before becoming exclusive...
Author Kris30 Posted May 26, 2010 Author Posted May 26, 2010 Ok, so now what? It seems obvious he is done with me. Do I just move on? Do I contact him saying its over? What?
SilentVoice Posted May 26, 2010 Posted May 26, 2010 Ok, so now what? It seems obvious he is done with me. Do I just move on? Do I contact him saying its over? What? Coming from someone who has been in this situation before,with someone i didn't even meet online. all you can do is move on . he is an ultimate ass for doing this to you but don't let him get you down.don't try to think about what you may have done wrong it won't prove anything. just leave it alone and move on.
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