Laugher Posted May 25, 2010 Posted May 25, 2010 Has anyone ever been dumped by a man and then they came back? If so, how long did it take for this to happen and did you take them back? Any men go back to an ex?
mamadee Posted May 25, 2010 Posted May 25, 2010 i went out with my ex-boyfriend for several years...he basically cheated on me and had a kid (during which time i still kept seeing him)...i couldn't take any more and in 1994 i stopped seeing him thinking i'd never hear from him again--i think he married the kid's mom in 1996... maybe 3 or 4 years ago he found me on myspace and we renewed our friendship (platonic) and he apologized for being such a jerk...so we met just to talk (or so i thought), but he wanted more...that was a couple of years ago...he never told his wife, but my husband knows all about us meeting and i had his blessing (i was going just to talk with an old friend and talk about old times--before he was my boyfriend he was a very dear friend)...my ex didn't want to actually get back together...just to have sex (i said no)... so, i guess, yes the ex came back but he only wanted a fling (although after i said no he stayed around for just a platonic relationship--we still communicate through IM), and besides i was already married and couldn't have "taken him back" if i wanted to...so time wise--10 years? but it wasn't for a real relationship...
Eeyore79 Posted May 25, 2010 Posted May 25, 2010 My ex came back several times - the last time was over a decade after we first started dating! I took him back every time, but the last time I came to my senses and told him where to stick it. My other ex contacted my recently after a ten year gap, but it appears that he'd broken up with his gf and was looking for a fling, and he thought I was an easy target because he'd messed me around before - I told him where to stick it too!
bluewolf17 Posted May 25, 2010 Posted May 25, 2010 My ex came back the second I got over him and found someone else. Isn't life funny?
Brokendreams875 Posted May 27, 2010 Posted May 27, 2010 (edited) I was with my now ex for a year around 2005 we broke up for a year and he kept in touch randomly here and there throughout the year, I did not contact him and was dating other people After a year we gave it another try and lasted 3 years to break up a week ago cause somehow he reverted back to being immature (something that hasnt happened since a bad few months he had early in the first year of our relationship. something that seems to happen anytime he has to actually make a life changing decision) he went from telling me he knew I was "the one" just 2 weeks ago to me feeling like im dieing every day even though I did the actual walking away. so yes my ex came back and I regret every day right now that I took him back Edited May 27, 2010 by Brokendreams875
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