Author marsle85 Posted May 25, 2010 Author Posted May 25, 2010 Oh, come on. What about the hospital worker you blueballed? He wined and dined you, and even cooked for you but he didn't even get a handjob. You've already proven you don't reciprocate feelings after being wined and dined romantically. So why should anyone spend more than Applebee's on you? For the last time: I wanted to have sex with him... couldn't. Is that you, hospital worker?
Green Posted May 25, 2010 Posted May 25, 2010 Hey, I'm just saying you lost your wine and dine romance card after that little stunt. Men should be skeptical about who they wine and dine. Only a few women are worth the romance treatment. And even then it's only after the guy has gotten serious with her. The "Romance" treatment usualy back fires... true romance is taking a girl to the beach, getting hot and bothered staring at her in a bikini... doing inapropriate things on that beach... and then taking her back to your place to get your bed all sandy and sticky
Engadget Posted May 25, 2010 Posted May 25, 2010 Applebees is the worst chain restaurant of them all, I don't even go to chains anymore. I realize why women like me now, I'm the opposite of that guy and how he talks. I may call the girl gorgeous once in a great while, but generally I'm kind of a sarcastic ass. It's more fun that way, and I require my women to be assertive and independent. If they can't deal with me shooting barbs at them, they aren't for me. If they go "Wahhhh why are you mean!??!?" then, adios.
Author marsle85 Posted May 25, 2010 Author Posted May 25, 2010 The way you shot down the guy in my post was kind of mean.
Engadget Posted May 25, 2010 Posted May 25, 2010 The way you shot down the guy in my post was kind of mean. Heh, you mean me?
AD1980 Posted May 25, 2010 Posted May 25, 2010 How about Olive Garden? Hell as an Italian id be offended if a girl brought that up:p
Green Posted May 25, 2010 Posted May 25, 2010 Maybe I'm a bitch but I'm pretty sure I could F any girl on this site if I wanted even Sara Sally or what ever or Donnamaybe... I really can't relate to these lame guys who chase after women with lame txts
Engadget Posted May 25, 2010 Posted May 25, 2010 Maybe I'm a bitch but I'm pretty sure I could F any girl on this site if I wanted even Sara Sally or what ever or Donnamaybe... I really can't relate to these lame guys who chase after women with lame txts :laugh:
You Go Girl Posted May 25, 2010 Posted May 25, 2010 That guy is sending those text messages because he knows you are already done with him before he even gets started, so he might as well self-implode. Yeah, I can be a restaurant snob too. But the real problem is that you don't want to take me to applebee's because they use cheap oil, bread and deep fry everything, and then I'll get all gassy and bloated and need a pepcid complete, and I might even make a little poof sound while we're kissing. Olive Garden isn't much better, but a little. I'm still getting indigestion thinking about it though.
EricaH329 Posted May 25, 2010 Posted May 25, 2010 I don't mean any disrespect by this, but if you truly don't like the way he is contacting you, i'd cut off all communication. I've gotten a ton of texts/emails/messages like that, but I don't bother posting a thread about them because I don't respond to those guys. If you don't like him, or the way he is speaking to you, cease contact and let him know that you are not interested. Things like this happen all the time, you just have to know how to deal with them.
PersonMan Posted May 25, 2010 Posted May 25, 2010 Olive Garden?? ****in Olive Garden? you live in NYC (im in Brooklyn) and hes offering up Olive Garden?? Just thinking about it is givin me agita anyway, guys like this are cornier than my poop. cut this dude off
tigressA Posted May 25, 2010 Posted May 25, 2010 The "Romance" treatment usualy back fires... true romance is taking a girl to the beach, getting hot and bothered staring at her in a bikini... doing inapropriate things on that beach... and then taking her back to your place to get your bed all sandy and sticky I like the way you think, Green...your GF is one lucky lady Anyway, I totally agree that the compliments are overblown. I've had a couple guys talk to me that way--guys I'd met online, that I hadn't even met in real life yet! Can you say eww?
PersonMan Posted May 25, 2010 Posted May 25, 2010 As a guy myself, I think I know my limits when it comes to that ****. I cant text a girl **** like that without laughing at myself. Just cant do it. Yeah maybe itll cost me a girl or four, but id rather be true to myself than a phony
EricaH329 Posted May 25, 2010 Posted May 25, 2010 the other day he mentioned how he had to go through my agent to talk to me. He goes on about how I'm a "model" etc. The thing is, he knows I don't like it- I roll my eyes, and don't respond to 99% of these *lame* messages. What do you mean when you say that you are a 'model'? Is it something you are working towards? Being an attractive female, means dealing with these types of guys.
stellaluna Posted May 25, 2010 Posted May 25, 2010 the other day he mentioned how he had to go through my agent to talk to me. He goes on about how I'm a "model" etc. The thing is, he knows I don't like it- I roll my eyes, and don't respond to 99% of these *lame* messages. Are you a "big girl model?" Because the last post I saw from you was about being short and 180lbs????? I remember because I clicked on your pics.
EricaH329 Posted May 25, 2010 Posted May 25, 2010 Maybe I'm a bitch but I'm pretty sure I could F any girl on this site if I wanted even Sara Sally or what ever or Donnamaybe... I really can't relate to these lame guys who chase after women with lame txts Please tell me this is sarcasm.
D-Lish Posted May 25, 2010 Posted May 25, 2010 Messages like this: "Well do you think cuddling with me would put a smile on that pretty face of yours?" make. me. gag. This guy sends me nightly texts (whatever) and most of the time they make me crack up. He's even this corny in person... the other day he mentioned how he had to go through my agent to talk to me. He goes on about how I'm a "model" etc. The thing is, he knows I don't like it- I roll my eyes, and don't respond to 99% of these *lame* messages. Gosh, just a glimpse of the last week's texts: "Why are you so cute?" "Can I show you how a princess should be treated?" "Your so cute, sweet, polite, gorgeous, respectful, amazing... you have no idea how rare and special you really are". Yikes. Thing is, he wants to take me out (he said Applebees:sick:) and a movie (Ironman). None of that sounds appetizing. Maybe i'm snooty, but ordering chicken crispers doesn't sound romantic. He's a nice guy, attractive- but not MY kind of guy. There isn't enough depth. As I was writing, he just sent this: "I have missed you even more since I've been home. You're cute, funny, sweet, polite, amazing to say the least". Half of me thinks/HOPES he's trying to play me - because there has to be an excuse for this behavior. Yuck. Would I LIKE these messages if they were from someone else? Some of you may think so, but it's just not me. I can't stand Facebook comments from couples: "So and so is my eternal sunshine, I live for them". I don't even CHANGE my status on Facebook. Don't get me wrong. When I am close to someone, I'll sit on your lap, I'll hold your hand, I could kiss for hours, I'm very sweet and I love physical intimacy. I'm not afraid of that kind of closeness, but to me - simple is best. I enjoy, and appreciate "I miss you" more than "I miss you more than the sun and the stars, yadayadayada.." Who's with me? This post really comes off as attention seeking....
EricaH329 Posted May 25, 2010 Posted May 25, 2010 This post really comes off as attention seeking.... I agree....
MrNate Posted May 25, 2010 Posted May 25, 2010 Please tell me this is sarcasm. lol well it seems like he won't be F'ing every girl on this site after all.
D-Lish Posted May 25, 2010 Posted May 25, 2010 aaaannnd things just got interesting. I know you are picturing a cat fight where all the women take a scratch at one another and end up kissing Mr. N. Lol. All I am saying is that this is an attention seeking thread if I've ever seen one.
EricaH329 Posted May 25, 2010 Posted May 25, 2010 I know you are picturing a cat fight where all the women take a scratch at one another and end up kissing Mr. N. Lol. All I am saying is that this is an attention seeking thread if I've ever seen one. And the threads leading up to this one, doesn't help her case. With all due respect, of course.
harmfulsweetz Posted May 25, 2010 Posted May 25, 2010 I agree, I don't like things like that either. Simplest way to deal with it, is to cut off contact, he may continue to text for a while but don't reply and you ought to be fine.
espec10001 Posted May 25, 2010 Posted May 25, 2010 I agree that is pretty annoying. But then again I'm a cold hearted *******
MrNate Posted May 25, 2010 Posted May 25, 2010 I know you are picturing a cat fight where all the women take a scratch at one another and end up kissing Mr. N. Lol. All I am saying is that this is an attention seeking thread if I've ever seen one. If that's what happens to result from a fight, it's all good d-lish. That's not a bad visualizationat all, heh. Mr. N. likes the lovey dovey.
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