Opheliaimmortal Posted May 24, 2010 Posted May 24, 2010 Hi, For the last few days I have noticed that my boyfriend and I have fallen into a rut. We are very comfy with each other but it feels like the spark is gone. At the same time we are arguing much more and just being pissy with each other all the time. We used to be happy overall and now there are few and far between bits. It feels boring when we are not fighting and sucky when we are. This is my first actual "long term" relationship (we are drawing close to the one year point) so I have no clue if this is normal or not. I feel so frustrated. We Talked about it the other night and he has been feeling the lack of spark bit too, but he wants to work on it. I don't know why, he just seems to be bugging me so much lately. Also, it was a semi-LDR bit while I was at college, and now that I am home for the summer we see each other much more. That bit just makes me more frustrated that I am not happier right now.
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