sam light Posted May 24, 2010 Posted May 24, 2010 If a guy appears married (ring) or is married, would you (gals) rule him out as a date, or potentially be more attracted to him?
TaraMaiden Posted May 24, 2010 Posted May 24, 2010 Well, that depends... Are you Is he looking for dates while married? Is he actually looking to get laid by someone other than his wife, and is not too concerned if women know/suspect he's married? Or are you talking about women coming on to men who they know/suspect are married, but they're forging ahead anyway.....?
legallyblonde289 Posted May 24, 2010 Posted May 24, 2010 RULE HIM OUT. i met what i thought was a great guy last week, he told me he had been single for a year (i didnt ask he said it unprovoked) and we were connecting and made out a little. later that night we went to get food and someone slipped and said something about "his wife". i asked if he was married, he goes "well im not in love". i called him a douchebag and walked out. (sorry for the vent, married guys like that just really piss me off. ok vent over:p)
carhill Posted May 24, 2010 Posted May 24, 2010 My experiences as a married man indicate a certain subset of single and married women will rule out a married man as relationship or marriage material, but will not rule out flirting with him, feeding their ego with him or having a ONS with him. Of course, I never experienced that subset of women until getting married. I was invisible to them before
FitChick Posted May 25, 2010 Posted May 25, 2010 I dated a married man when I was young and stupid. (We all get one mistake!) He said, "I'm married but we're separated." What I later realized was he meant she wasn't in the same room with him as he was telling me this.
dressing up Posted May 25, 2010 Posted May 25, 2010 If a guy appears married (ring) or is married, would you (gals) rule him out as a date, or potentially be more attracted to him? Why are you asking this? Are you in a potential situation?
OpenGL Posted May 25, 2010 Posted May 25, 2010 All women will say they won't date a married man. The truth is that a man's martial status is irrelevant to women, if he is good looking/rich/powerful hes fair game. Just look at how many politicians have mistresses.
TaraMaiden Posted May 25, 2010 Posted May 25, 2010 Some women on here haven't replied, because Some women on here are in EMA's.... so not ALL women will say they wouldn't date a married man, because guess what - some of them do! I'd still be interested to know what the OP's motive for asking the question, is.... I suspect he's hiding something. Like a ring, in his inside jacket pocket.
EricaH329 Posted May 25, 2010 Posted May 25, 2010 Just look at how many politicians have mistresses. And just look at these mistresses as who they are, and you will see they are flawed in almost every aspect. OP -- Rule them out. No questions asked.
Author sam light Posted May 26, 2010 Author Posted May 26, 2010 Why are you asking this? Are you in a potential situation? The idea has crossed my mind to wear a ring in situations (traveling) where I won't be staying long. From what I see here, it would prevent more dates than it attracted.
TaraMaiden Posted May 26, 2010 Posted May 26, 2010 So...hang on.... You want to wear a ring and look married to get laid, but also to give the message that you're just looking for a good time with no commitment? Is that right? Why not just say "Just passing through dearie, don't read anything into this, I'm just looking for a casual phukk...." Or would that be too honest....?
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