BeautifulMan Posted May 27, 2010 Posted May 27, 2010 You definitely did the right thing my friend, that is the true manipulative nature of women and they wonder why there is no "mr. right". I'm glad you kept your coola, s a man should. Let Andres deal with her cheating ways while you are able to search for something better.
missfrenchie Posted May 27, 2010 Posted May 27, 2010 that is the true manipulative nature of women and they wonder why there is no "mr. right". Geeeeez. We aren't all like that... While I can admit - we can be bitches to deal with, we aren't all manipulative. It's girls like this that give the good ones a bad name.....
Cracker Jack Posted May 27, 2010 Posted May 27, 2010 Good stuff. She was a waste of time. You're much better off.
hoping2heal Posted May 27, 2010 Posted May 27, 2010 I'm going to let you in on a little secret. All women always have at least 4-5 different guys on the side they are talking to. The question is not if she is planning to meet up with theses dudes, just when. If you're dating a girl and shes texting a lot just assume it's another guy shes planning to bone. Where do you get your information from? I have ZERO guys on the side. Anyhow OP, if that is just a friend and that is how she talks to her friends that's a problem. That SAID nobody is waiting for their "baby" who is their friend. They were exchanging things as if they were a couple. She's cheating, she then lied and you being so desperate to believe it, took the bait. All this does is encourage her to keep lying and makes you look like a big oscar meyer weenie. You start accepting this behavior now, and the next girl who is cheating on you; you will be tolerant of as well.
Author femaletroubles Posted May 27, 2010 Author Posted May 27, 2010 ok so she sent me a txt this morning, i'm going with no acknowledgement of her presence. she walks into my study room, asks me if i "brought her S**T" and i don't acknowledge or look up. She unplugs my laptop, and starts to walk out of the room with it. I get up, and grab it back very quickly. I put it back on the table where it was. Tell her i'm getting the cops. I walk over to the lady, and by the time i return she had gone back into her study room. There was a lot of commotion and everyone was watching, everyone heard me say i'm getting the cops. (it's a quiet library after all) Any suggestions on how to prevent her from doing this stuff? Should i just give her back a binder of stuff she has on her computer/or just throw it out? crazy unstable girl
Author femaletroubles Posted May 27, 2010 Author Posted May 27, 2010 she just came into the room and told me she's going to see the dean of students because i won't give her stuff back!? haha i told her she'll get her stuff back, i wasn't home last night. she said i don't care, i'm going to the dean so what's she going to tell him, that she left stuff at my place, was flirting with other guys, it ended and she went crazy, and is still acting crazy?!
legallyblonde289 Posted May 27, 2010 Posted May 27, 2010 wow she sounds like a crazy bitch. i would give her back everything you have of hers just to be rid of her. and if she goes to the dean she's going to look like a baby, this has nothing to with school (especially if you guys don't live on campus). she needs to grow up.
phineas Posted May 27, 2010 Posted May 27, 2010 If the dean calls you in tell him the truth. She asked for her stuff, blocked you in. (show pictures) & while you were bringing it out she drove off without it. What else can you do? just give her back her stuff. Cheaters get REALLY REALLY REALLY pissed when their caught. My STBXW, when confronted with proof of her cheating acted exactly like the weasle executive dude in Happy Gilmore when he had to define business ethics. she had a complete fricken meltdown because her brain couldn't handle the reality that she was a POS & her alternate reality she created where OM was "just a friend" at the same time.
Krytie TV Posted May 27, 2010 Posted May 27, 2010 She is a crazy bitch. Kinda reminds me of my ex-wife... really. The absolute best thing you can do is be calm and dismissive of her. You will have to put up with her crap a while, but once you officially become boring by not escalating with her, she will find drama elsewhere. Well done. Women like that hate not being able to get a rise out of you. And really, stop "getting the police". It's lame. Just laugh in her face when she gets stupid. It'll stop.
Author femaletroubles Posted May 27, 2010 Author Posted May 27, 2010 She is a crazy bitch. Kinda reminds me of my ex-wife... really. The absolute best thing you can do is be calm and dismissive of her. You will have to put up with her crap a while, but once you officially become boring by not escalating with her, she will find drama elsewhere. Well done. Women like that hate not being able to get a rise out of you. And really, stop "getting the police". It's lame. Just laugh in her face when she gets stupid. It'll stop. haha yes, she said it's her best friend...lol right i flirt and call my best friends hunny, baby, babe, future hubby...right i only said i was going to get the cops bc she wouldn't leave my room. the security cameras if reviewed, show her walking into my room, and picking up my laptop, me getting up and grabbing it back. i have pics of her standing in front of her car which is blocking my car. she's clearly in the picture...let her go to the dean hope andres enjoys her...hope she enjoys the life she created for herself.
Mimolicious Posted May 27, 2010 Posted May 27, 2010 Give her all the things back. Don't sabotage yourself by trying to keep let's say... her thongs. Gives her reasons to keep on coming back (unless you love the dramz). Once you have given her all her stuff back, she will probably go away for good or who knows, she may continue to act crazy. If she does, go to the cops and file a complaint. Rejection is the biggest afrodisiac, may trigger more and more the looney in her. Good luck! Another thing, don't take that psycho bitch back!
silic0ntoad Posted May 27, 2010 Posted May 27, 2010 Hey, I kept thongs from all the girls I slept with, just one, to mark conquest. Otherwise, their **** all got returned. I made sure I was stealthy about my selectionz.
ComeUndone Posted May 28, 2010 Posted May 28, 2010 Hey, I kept thongs from all the girls I slept with, just one, to mark conquest. Otherwise, their **** all got returned. I made sure I was stealthy about my selectionz. Wow, classy.
bolase Posted May 28, 2010 Posted May 28, 2010 Hey, I kept thongs from all the girls I slept with, just one, to mark conquest. Otherwise, their **** all got returned. I made sure I was stealthy about my selectionz. gross...what girl worthy of your love is going to like this?
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