aussiegurl Posted May 24, 2010 Posted May 24, 2010 I'm in a relationship thats losing (lost) it's spark. And I've started developing feeling for someone else... no it's not as simple as it all sounds, this man is my boss ! I have worked at his company since Feburary this year (3 or so months) and I can't control it any longer. I've hated working my whole life and these days I can't stand being late! So please please- I beg of you- Advice! What to do! His young and single, and gives me hints here and there but nothing too much, I just don't know how to play it... or if it's legal :| Thankyou xxx
Brokenlady Posted May 24, 2010 Posted May 24, 2010 Um, is this you? http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t200794/?highlight=aussiegirl
Author aussiegurl Posted May 24, 2010 Author Posted May 24, 2010 No it's not, just a conincidence I guess! Yes very true that quote....
pollyanna22 Posted May 24, 2010 Posted May 24, 2010 you said you were in a relationship? are you married, do you love the person your in a relationship with, if so work on finding the spark and forget the boss....not a good idea anyway. good luck
carhill Posted May 24, 2010 Posted May 24, 2010 I just don't know how to play it... or if it's legal Your company should have a stated policy about fraternization if it is a condition of your employment. Outside of that, you would have to gauge the effect your boss could have on your career if things went bad and analyze that relevance. Barring perceived negatives, and presuming you're both available, meaning you end your existing R before pursuing the boss and he's not married/LTR, enjoy
Owl Posted May 24, 2010 Posted May 24, 2010 What's the status of your other relationship? Married? Dating? Engaged? What's caused the "loss of the spark"?
whichwayisup Posted May 24, 2010 Posted May 24, 2010 I'm in a relationship thats losing (lost) it's spark. And I've started developing feeling for someone else... no it's not as simple as it all sounds, this man is my boss ! I have worked at his company since Feburary this year (3 or so months) and I can't control it any longer. I've hated working my whole life and these days I can't stand being late! So please please- I beg of you- Advice! What to do! His young and single, and gives me hints here and there but nothing too much, I just don't know how to play it... or if it's legal :| Thankyou xxx First off, since it seems you have no interest of reconnecting, communicating with your partner, try to fix thing, then break up with him. Why stay and cheat? End it and do whatever it is you want, not on the expense of your partner. As for the boss thing, you have a crush. And that crush could turn into something else (obviously) and ruin not only your career but your reputation at work. Getting involved with the boss is NOT a wise move. Quit your job then ask this guy out (once you break up with your boyfriend).
Mimolicious Posted May 24, 2010 Posted May 24, 2010 Getting involved with the boss is NOT a wise move. It's not the smartest move but it happens and sometimes it leads to lovely relationships that end in marriage and all. When it starts right, because we all know that what starts bad ends bad...
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