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Long story short I know this girl..

 

Basically her and her BF were were in a LDR, and he to broke up with her over the phone. He then proceeded to ignore her completely - just cut her out of his life. She explained to me that she wrote letters, called, emailed, etc. but he just went NC and pretended she didn't exist.. I guess it made her feel really depressed and just terrible - much like how some of you are probably feeling after a break up.

 

Sooo, 3 months later (after hearing nothing from him even with all the letters/calls etc.) he messages her on facebook out of the blue apologizing and explaining that he made a mistake. She accepted the apology but did not take him back citing that trusting him again would be difficult based on how he handled the situation & that she was kinda over him by the time he contacted her. She did tell me though that they are still talking and trying to figure things out.

 

Take what you will from this, but sometimes people don't realize what they have till its gone AND you can get over someone.

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Did he explain what the thinking was behind cutting her out and ignoring her completely?

 

Cos my ex has done that, and I just can't figure out how someone can be so cold... I dunno if it's because he still has feeling but doesn't want a relationship with me, or if it's because he doesn't care at all...

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Yes mine has done it as well and it sucks - just cut me out basically.

 

To answer your question, she actually didn't explain that to me about her ex BF.. I would assume its their way of coping with things combined with guilt/confusion & lack of communication skills. Just remember though - those who try to push away their feelings or pretend they aren't there will only be hurting themselves in the long run... Look at it this way, if they are unable to open up and just explain things then imagine what they would be like years down the road when a huge issue comes up in the r/s.

 

Stay strong, and good luck.

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