new guy is sick, to text or not text?

[trueluV]

this new guy i've met got a bad cold.

 

we had a plan to meet up today if he was feeling better but haven't heard from him. should i text and ask if he's feeling okay today, or give him space and wait till he contacts me first?

 

we talked last night and he sounded really sick.

if he were my friend, i'd ask, but he's a new guy i don't know if i'd look so desperate or aggressive. but then, i know he's so sick, so not texting and asking would look more like playing mind games or playing cool intentionally.

 

what do you guys think?

[Pfiend101]

I think you should text him. I like the woman to text me in moderation. Asking how he is shows you care about him and were thinking of him. I dont see anything wrong with it.

[brainygirl]

I'd text him, but i've been accused of over texting, so maybe back off and wait until tomorrow.

[marsle85]

I vote NO to texting. You're not going to get the cute conversation you want. He's sick, and probably will be a little short for your liking. I say, give it another day- and text him tomorrow with a bright: "Hi! How are you feeling!"

[trueluV]

i just texted him asking if he's feeling alright today.

 

i was debating on it, but then since i knew he was really sick, it'd be out of my character to just ignore it to be the "cool girl".

 

if he doesn't like the fact that i simply texted to ask if he's feeling alright and nothing more then i guess he is not the guy worth my time.

 

i will update you, but i'd still like to hear what guys think about this.

 

thank you!