Mary3 Posted May 24, 2010 Posted May 24, 2010 Men who talk about their careers and politics too much. No sense of humor and can't let their hair down. Boring, Boring, Boring. BINGO !!! and BORING in bed Yuck !
espec10001 Posted May 24, 2010 Posted May 24, 2010 What about guys who talk about the stars, the mystery of things, music plants birds adventure hunting I know that we're adults we have to pay bills and go to work and do all that stuff but we can still be little kids when we're in love.
Mary3 Posted May 24, 2010 Posted May 24, 2010 :lmao::lmao::D:D:D:bunny: A man with * spice * , someone willing to try new things in the bedroom... You either * have it * or you don't ....
Mary3 Posted May 24, 2010 Posted May 24, 2010 OMG I had a bf like this BORED to tears. Talked in DEEP detail about the constellations and the mechanics of the pump and its role in the mechanics of things. I do love the stars and the planets , Don't get me wrong. But he was like a walking dictionary....If I want to read the dictionary ( and I do , lol ) I will pick it up and read it !
somedude81 Posted May 24, 2010 Posted May 24, 2010 What are the best ways for somebody to move beyond small talk and get the woman to talk about things she really enjoys? Even though I rarely talk about myself, I'm afraid I have been boring to women. I'm not really good at steering conversations. I just pick out certain things that she says that seem interesting and ask her questions. I can keep conversations going but it's her talking 2/3rds of the time.
espec10001 Posted May 24, 2010 Posted May 24, 2010 A man with * spice * , someone willing to try new things in the bedroom... You either * have it * or you don't .... what about trying new things outside the bedroom that's what i like!!! :love::laugh:
Mary3 Posted May 24, 2010 Posted May 24, 2010 what about trying new things outside the bedroom that's what i like!!! :love::laugh: You mean like in the kitchen ?
John K Posted May 24, 2010 Posted May 24, 2010 Oh, and men who are too needy. The worst 'men' of all.
espec10001 Posted May 24, 2010 Posted May 24, 2010 OMG I had a bf like this BORED to tears. Talked in DEEP detail about the constellations and the mechanics of the pump and its role in the mechanics of things. I do love the stars and the planets , Don't get me wrong. But he was like a walking dictionary....If I want to read the dictionary ( and I do , lol ) I will pick it up and read it ! I mean looking at the stars, mapping them out. Heck, being adventurous underneath the dew of the stars. There is nothing like it!
John K Posted May 24, 2010 Posted May 24, 2010 OMG I had a bf like this BORED to tears. Talked in DEEP detail about the constellations and the mechanics of the pump and its role in the mechanics of things. I do love the stars and the planets , Don't get me wrong. But he was like a walking dictionary....If I want to read the dictionary ( and I do , lol ) I will pick it up and read it ! AKA as the nerd. No one likes nerds.
Mary3 Posted May 24, 2010 Posted May 24, 2010 I mean looking at the stars, mapping them out. Heck, being adventurous underneath the dew of the stars. There is nothing like it! How about a tent set up on a hill with the dark velvet night sky with stars that twinkle like little diamonds as you both lay on your back...gazing at the camp fire and out come the marshmallows....Then later you both go in the tent
Mary3 Posted May 24, 2010 Posted May 24, 2010 AKA as the nerd. No one likes nerds. I guess I found out Nerds bore the H*** out of me......lol
nowomanocry Posted May 24, 2010 Posted May 24, 2010 I guess guys lacking sense of humour would be boring. Same goes for women. Too serious types bore me to hell
Sazerac Posted May 24, 2010 Posted May 24, 2010 I guess guys lacking sense of humour would be boring. Same goes for women. Too serious types bore me to hell Or worse, someone who takes themselves too seriously. Humor and perspective (nearly synonymous in my book) are the greatest personal assets one can have.
Mary3 Posted May 24, 2010 Posted May 24, 2010 Or worse, someone who takes themselves too seriously. Humor and perspective (nearly synonymous in my book) are the greatest personal assets one can have. You really need to be able to laugh at yourself .
carhill Posted May 24, 2010 Posted May 24, 2010 As a man, and accepting that a man can never read the mind of a woman, I find a simple rule to apply. Watch the behavior of the men the lady f*cks (meaning is dating, in relationships with or married to) for a clue as to what she finds to be 'not boring', then decide whether that dynamic matches up with what one believes to be healthy and proceed as appropriate. IMO, the key is finding a compatible path-mate, rather than analyzing whether one is 'boring' or not. If one makes changes in themselves, it should be for purposes of growing one's self, not meeting another's standards, which is giving another person too much value and importance.
BubbleFreak Posted May 24, 2010 Posted May 24, 2010 Boring is when an MSN conversation with a guy (totally fictional ofcourse) pans out like this: BubbleFreak: I totally love the colour purple. Boring Guy: lol BubbleFreak: Don't you think leprachauns are evil? Boring Guy: lol BubbleFreak: I'm going to staple your penis to a wall. Boring Guy: ouch. lol Five minutes later... Boring Guy sends a nudge to BubbleFreak BubbleFreak: what Boring Guy: lol
John K Posted May 24, 2010 Posted May 24, 2010 I guess I found out Nerds bore the H*** out of me......lol You and every other girl. Not excatly breaking news.
Mary3 Posted May 24, 2010 Posted May 24, 2010 Boring is when an MSN conversation with a guy (totally fictional ofcourse) pans out like this: BubbleFreak: I totally love the colour purple. Boring Guy: lol BubbleFreak: Don't you think leprachauns are evil? Boring Guy: lol BubbleFreak: I'm going to staple your penis to a wall. Boring Guy: ouch. lol Five minutes later... Boring Guy sends a nudge to BubbleFreak BubbleFreak: what Boring Guy: lol Funny ! ...............
espec10001 Posted May 24, 2010 Posted May 24, 2010 How about a tent set up on a hill with the dark velvet night sky with stars that twinkle like little diamonds as you both lay on your back...gazing at the camp fire and out come the marshmallows....Then later you both go in the tent yes. gosh I miss those days
Mary3 Posted May 24, 2010 Posted May 24, 2010 You and every other girl. Not excatly breaking news. The best case scenario : Nerds belong with nerds....
Mary3 Posted May 24, 2010 Posted May 24, 2010 yes. gosh I miss those days And then you snuggle and play all night in the tent,,,...Then you wake up in the morning a cook fresh bacon and eggs on the campfire
John K Posted May 24, 2010 Posted May 24, 2010 The best case scenario : Nerds belong with nerds.... Nerds sit at their computers memorizing all the constellations while the rest of us are out under the stars with our girl.
espec10001 Posted May 24, 2010 Posted May 24, 2010 And then you snuggle and play all night in the tent,,,...Then you wake up in the morning a cook fresh bacon and eggs on the campfire Sounds like lots of fun!! :lmao:
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