brainygirl Posted May 24, 2010 Posted May 24, 2010 inability to carry on a conversation. Only interests being super right wing politics, hunting, sports ect. Oh, and the guys who always are like "what ever you want to do" and wont make a choice drive me nuts.
runner Posted May 24, 2010 Posted May 24, 2010 and on a side note: a boring guy could also mean, 'not really that into you.'
FitChick Posted May 24, 2010 Posted May 24, 2010 Someone whose interests are very different from mine, i.e. football fanatic. Or someone who doesn't seem interested in much of anything.
Green Posted May 24, 2010 Posted May 24, 2010 Ladies What makes a man boring? Insight please. inability to carry on a conversation. Only interests being super right wing politics, hunting, sports ect. Oh, and the guys who always are like "what ever you want to do" and wont make a choice drive me nuts. "what ever you want to do" attitude is exactly the key. A Man needs to take charge, go in for that kiss.... ect... basicaly be himself and not just try to figure out what the woman wants... he needs to go for what he wants
Confusedalways Posted May 24, 2010 Posted May 24, 2010 It seems most people who want to take me out are boring. Basically they don't know what to talk about, so they run with something I say and run with it to the point of beating a dead horse. I was out one time and he was asking me about movies and I mentioned that I liked superbad. He then proceeded to talk about and quote various scenes of the movie. I like the movie but not talking about it for 25 minutes. Boring also happens when they talk about a subject I'm clearly not interested in, and show my disinterest by not asking questions and/or changing the topic.
bac Posted May 24, 2010 Posted May 24, 2010 IMO a man is boring if he is impersonal, self-absorbed, not capable to ask questions which i want to answer, lying all the time, small talking all the time, talking about things which are boring to me.
Woggle Posted May 24, 2010 Posted May 24, 2010 If he is faithful to her and actually treats her well then he is boring. Just kidding but it is not far from the truth in many cases.
Chicago_Guy Posted May 24, 2010 Posted May 24, 2010 IMO a man is boring if he is impersonal, self-absorbed, not capable to ask questions which i want to answer, lying all the time, small talking all the time, talking about things which are boring to me. That is a good answer. I have been on dates with women who were like that and it was boring.
John K Posted May 24, 2010 Posted May 24, 2010 boring to a woman= "not attracted to him" Best answer.
Sandy223 Posted May 24, 2010 Posted May 24, 2010 Well that's a pretty open ended question! What makes anyone boring? A boring person has no interests, isn't engaged with life, is worried about how people will judge them, instead of being more concerned with how they judge others ... hey! your opinion and how you feel is important too .... I am not saying being selfish here, but a boring person could but not always, be the type that is always looking for approval from others, as opposed to actively seeking out things in life, other than realationships, that they are passionate about and interested in ... Someone who is not boring, has an unmistakable zest for life, and is interested in different things, whether it be movies, books, excercise, sports, going to lectures ... they have intersting lives that unfold each day ... ... i hope this helps, but I could never find someone boring with outside interests .... even if I weren't interested in the same things! The interesting person typically doesn't care if others are interested or share the same passion for his hobbies ... he is so engrossed, he doesn't think about it ... again, I hope this helps, but it's the best I can do
sally4sara Posted May 24, 2010 Posted May 24, 2010 I think the worst boring guy is "that's not my thing" guy. Whole list of things he has never tried and will not try because its "just not his thing". How would you know if you've never tried it?!? And he is worse than just plain old boring guy because the things that ARE his thing might be interesting. So you spend time with him because he is nice and normal seeming until you realize -after trying all HIS things - that those things are just not YOUR thing.
BeautifulMan Posted May 24, 2010 Posted May 24, 2010 I think the worst boring guy is "that's not my thing" guy. Whole list of things he has never tried and will not try because its "just not his thing". How would you know if you've never tried it?!? And he is worse than just plain old boring guy because the things that ARE his thing might be interesting. So you spend time with him because he is nice and normal seeming until you realize -after trying all HIS things - that those things are just not YOUR thing. Ugh, I have buds like that. Saying something isn't his scene or thing to do. So is it the lack of going out and doing new things every week or so that makes a guy boring or is it mostly the personality?
sally4sara Posted May 24, 2010 Posted May 24, 2010 Ugh, I have buds like that. Saying something isn't his scene or thing to do. So is it the lack of going out and doing new things every week or so that makes a guy boring or is it mostly the personality? Don't have to do a different thing every week (at least, I don't need that) but an adventurous spirit goes a long way toward not being boring.
gypsy_nicky Posted May 24, 2010 Posted May 24, 2010 boring to a woman= "not attracted to him" agreed. Boring is usually used because women need an emotional component from men (be it from their status,looks, or personality type) and need a man who gives her the 'right' kind of attention. Asking women about what makes a man boring will not give you proper answers.
Mary3 Posted May 24, 2010 Posted May 24, 2010 Ladies What makes a man boring? Insight please. Alot of * I * ...use. I want this and I want that and I am this and I am that ..blah ..blah... Everything is about what HE wants. Also dropping hints about what he has : , cars , money , boats , fancy houses on the beach , BORING ! Tell me what you have done for others . Tell me how you have impacted someone elses life. Tell me about your compassionate side. One guy wasted 90 minutes talking to me on my cell phone about what he has and all the above. Never once asked me about me. Puts me to sleep....lol
espec10001 Posted May 24, 2010 Posted May 24, 2010 Well here's the thing: 'boring' guys tend to be more stable and are better for long term relationships. The opposite of boring is crazy! I'm a crazy one. I've been told by the women I've dated. I'm not long term material. I know I'm crazy. I'm a very passionate person and sometimes the passion I feel in a relationship just gets me in trouble!!!
Mary3 Posted May 24, 2010 Posted May 24, 2010 Well here's the thing: 'boring' guys tend to be more stable and are better for long term relationships. The opposite of boring is crazy! I'm a crazy one. I've been told by the women I've dated. I'm not long term material. I know I'm crazy. I'm a very passionate person and sometimes the passion I feel in a relationship just gets me in trouble!!! Thats Awesome ! ......
espec10001 Posted May 24, 2010 Posted May 24, 2010 Thats Awesome ! ...... Oh, if only it were so! Would you really want to date a crazy man? I don't mean crazy as in hurting someone, but you know, when I'm with a girl I'm really into I'm REALLY into her, and that's the problem. My passion ends up backfiring and burning me, so I'm extra cautious now!!! Geeeeeezzzzzzzzzzz!
Mary3 Posted May 24, 2010 Posted May 24, 2010 Oh, if only it were so! Would you really want to date a crazy man? I don't mean crazy as in hurting someone, but you know, when I'm with a girl I'm really into I'm REALLY into her, and that's the problem. My passion ends up backfiring and burning me, so I'm extra cautious now!!! Geeeeeezzzzzzzzzzz! Its the only kind of man I can date. A hot firecracker !!
Aulie Posted May 24, 2010 Posted May 24, 2010 IMO a man is boring if he is impersonal, self-absorbed, not capable to ask questions which i want to answer, lying all the time, small talking all the time, talking about things which are boring to me. This. Also, guys who never seem to have opinions on anything (or just don't voice them) and just say "Yeah, mmhmm, cool, yeah" to EVERYTHING anyone says to them.
stillafool Posted May 24, 2010 Posted May 24, 2010 Men who talk about their careers and politics too much. No sense of humor and can't let their hair down. Boring, Boring, Boring.
espec10001 Posted May 24, 2010 Posted May 24, 2010 Its the only kind of man I can date. A hot firecracker !! :lmao::lmao::D:D:D:bunny:
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