LoveBites Posted May 23, 2010 Posted May 23, 2010 3 weeks ago, I met this girl who is 18 (I'm 20) through a mutual friend at a party at my place. We hit it off really well that night. I am not a ladies man by any means, I tend to be the nice guy who just doesnt approach the good looking girls because fear of rejection. I will be honest, this girl is way out of my league.... Well the night went good, and then we started texting after. She is the one who is almost always sending the first text and each of her responses are at least 30-40 words so it is really easy to play along or respond with a good answer. I am pretty inexperienced with the girl friend thing. Well somewhere deep down inside of me, I pulled my "A" game that I never thought I had. Our text messages the next week were anything but broing. Lot of flirty messages from both of us being sent as well as some really fun conversations. I finally get back from college and now she lives less than an hour away. We met up a few times so far and went to go see a movie. The spark was till there but it was definately ALOT weeker. No flirty stuff really going on (maybe because alcohol wasnt there). I am a shy guy who can become boring because I will get too nervous. Well, the last 4-5 days she hasnt started a text conversation yet. She was starting at least 75% of them before. I feel like I am becoming annoying because I will send her a few texts throughout the day.... but she instantly will respond...but her responses seem a little less enthusiastic. It seems like our texts are becoming ALOT less flirty and ALOT more boring. We seemed to have already shared all of our entertaining stories or shared each other favorites on a lot of subjects. Now the texts have been reduced to almost pure questions to try to spark a good text converstaion... how was your day? what are you doing? What are you gonna do this week? How was work? So this weekend I decided I wouldnt text her first. Well, its been 2 days and neither of us have sent each other a text message.... 1)What do you think 2)How do I re-spark good conversations 3)What should I do 4)Any Adivce
doomage Posted May 23, 2010 Posted May 23, 2010 Stop texting her. it seems that's all you care about. lol Call her man, don't be afraid, she's waiting for you to take the lead. Stop all this texting junk.
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