legallyblonde289 Posted May 23, 2010 Posted May 23, 2010 I'm a man and I agree with what she said in ur quotes just now. You asked ur gf all these questions. You are just very judgemental and there is really no reason for it. You shouldn't call any girl a slut even if she has been with what you consider to be many guys. If you want to date virgins or women who have only been with few men in long term relationships that is for you to decide. What I won't agree with is you casting your judgment down on some random girl by calling her a slut you are awesome.
Author doomage Posted May 23, 2010 Author Posted May 23, 2010 Uhm, nope, like men just fine. Just don't like your attitude. There are men in the world who realize that a woman's sexual past in none of their business, and there are men in the world who have enough class not to start gossipy threads about ex-girlfriends in order to trash talk the girl who rejected them. trash talking would be saying "that stupid whore she rejected me and I'm butthurt about it" lol "I'm not hurt that she broke it off with me because everyone has the freedom to date who they like, and not date who they don't like." Oh well i guess she didnt like me after all, well guess what there will be another girl who will like me out there. As for the attitude you seem to be the one with the attitude problem. For your information there are plenty of guys out there who lose respect for women who give it up too easily, especially the ones that get women consistently, I on the other hand give them the benefit of the doubt, and still treat them well, even take them out. I got pretty sexual with this one quickly, did that stop me from getting to know her as a person? No.
legallyblonde289 Posted May 23, 2010 Posted May 23, 2010 trash talking would be saying "that stupid whore she rejected me and I'm butthurt about it" lol "I'm not hurt that she broke it off with me because everyone has the freedom to date who they like, and not date who they don't like." Oh well i guess she didnt like me after all, well guess what there will be another girl who will like me out there. As for the attitude you seem to be the one with the attitude problem. For your information there are plenty of guys out there who lose respect for women who give it up too easily, especially the ones that get women consistently, I on the other hand give them the benefit of the doubt, and still treat them well, even take them out. I got pretty sexual with this one quickly, did that stop me from getting to know her as a person? No. and there a plenty of women (myself included) who lose respect for men who lose respect for women for engaging in an act that they BOTH participated in (especially considering that the men are the ones that usually initiate it and often pressure the women into doing it)
brainygirl Posted May 23, 2010 Posted May 23, 2010 and there a plenty of women (myself included) who lose respect for men who lose respect for women for engaging in an act that they BOTH participated in (especially considering that the men are the ones that usually initiate it and often pressure the women into doing it) I've decided that the OP is a woman hating troll and will no longer be responding to his thread.
rewe4reel Posted May 23, 2010 Posted May 23, 2010 Yes, obviously a woman who screws someone in the back of the bagel store where she works is a complete slut. Unfortunately OP I think nowadays the majority of women have at least one or more similar escapades in their sexual histories. For example after we had been dating for a year, my wife cheated on me with two guys. With one of the guys, she screwed him next to the garbage dumpster out back of the restaurant where they had just eaten dinner together.
Author doomage Posted May 23, 2010 Author Posted May 23, 2010 Yes, obviously a woman who screws someone in the back of the bagel store where she works is a complete slut. Unfortunately OP I think nowadays the majority of women have at least one or more similar escapades in their sexual histories. For example after we had been dating for a year, my wife cheated on me with two guys. With one of the guys, she screwed him next to the garbage dumpster out back of the restaurant where they had just eaten dinner together. Damn sorry to hear that, that sucks. I don't know I kind of feel like women are more prone to cheating than guys, because they are all about the moment and how they feel at that moment, yes some are strong willed and will not be involved in cheating, but the majority can and will given the chance. As for you brainygirl I don't hate women, never did. Get your anger issues sorted out.
Hot Carl Posted May 23, 2010 Posted May 23, 2010 Someone quote for me where the OP passed judgment on the girl in any way. Sounded to me like he was just getting others' perspective on the situation. It could be that in his own mind he's thinking "damn, this girl seems to get around", which is an opinion he's entitled to. But finding out what other people think about it isn't a bad thing.
legallyblonde289 Posted May 23, 2010 Posted May 23, 2010 Someone quote for me where the OP passed judgment on the girl in any way. Sounded to me like he was just getting others' perspective on the situation. It could be that in his own mind he's thinking "damn, this girl seems to get around", which is an opinion he's entitled to. But finding out what other people think about it isn't a bad thing. i dont actually think the OP passed judgment on her when he was with her, i think he's thinking about it after the fact and is asking for other opinions. however, chicago guy did say that he and most men would look down on a girl that had more than a few sexual partners and had a similar sexual experience. people are free to choose to be with others that have had similar sexual experiences to theirs, but my problem is with people who have had a high amount of partners or crazy experiences but expect their partner to be practically a virgin. my point is if you consider the girl a slut, you should consider the guy a slut as well.
Author doomage Posted May 23, 2010 Author Posted May 23, 2010 i dont actually think the OP passed judgment on her when he was with her, i think he's thinking about it after the fact and is asking for other opinions. however, chicago guy did say that he and most men would look down on a girl that had more than a few sexual partners and had a similar sexual experience. people are free to choose to be with others that have had similar sexual experiences to theirs, but my problem is with people who have had a high amount of partners or crazy experiences but expect their partner to be practically a virgin. my point is if you consider the girl a slut, you should consider the guy a slut as well. Ya I'm not an angel either, i've been freaky with 5 girls, and was never in a relationship with either of them, but I try to be fair with everything I do and I'm thinking about it like if I want to bone as many girls as i can should i pass judgement on the girls who do the same while being single? It would be hypocritical to say that she's a slut if I'm doing the same thing. But I mean society thinks this way, they think girls should not be allowed to express themselves sexually but this has been and is changing.
EricaH329 Posted May 23, 2010 Posted May 23, 2010 Yes, obviously a woman who screws someone in the back of the bagel store where she works is a complete slut. Unfortunately OP I think nowadays the majority of women have at least one or more similar escapades in their sexual histories. For example after we had been dating for a year, my wife cheated on me with two guys. With one of the guys, she screwed him next to the garbage dumpster out back of the restaurant where they had just eaten dinner together. There is a man involved in these 'escapades' as well. Let's not put all of the 'slutty-ness' on the females. my point is if you consider the girl a slut, you should consider the guy a slut as well. Yes, this! Exactly this!
DadofTwoGirls Posted May 23, 2010 Posted May 23, 2010 No she is not a slut if all she did was get it on in the storage room..even if it was with a different partner everyday of the week...I can tell you the definition of a slut if you want but it wouldn't be appropriate so I will ad-lib it..If a girl gives you a bj then lets you go back door..not a slut...if she lets you go back door then gives you a bj..now that's a slut..
bac Posted May 23, 2010 Posted May 23, 2010 She is just 21, therefore she is immature. It is hard to say how slutty she is because she might made it all up to impress you. One thing is for sure about her that she lacks common sense unless she tried hard to get rid of you.
St. Nick Posted May 23, 2010 Posted May 23, 2010 She is just 21, therefore she is immature. It is hard to say how slutty she is because she might made it all up to impress you. One thing is for sure about her that she lacks common sense unless she tried hard to get rid of you. Gotta agree with this. Many girls in their early 20s lie and create the most fantastic stories about their sex lives. They think it makes them seem more mature. I wouldn't be surprised if she lied about the whole thing.
sally4sara Posted May 23, 2010 Posted May 23, 2010 It would be hypocritical to say that she's a slut if I'm doing the same thing. But I mean society thinks this way, they think girls should not be allowed to express themselves sexually but this has been and is changing. And it does so with every person that uses this as an excuse to model their own thinking.
Author doomage Posted May 23, 2010 Author Posted May 23, 2010 Well when she said she had anal sex in the way she said it it was kind of wierd lol too blunt, and im a blunt person in a way, but it made me think twice kidn of when she said she had sex with her shift leader because my cousin worked at mcdonalds back in teh day and he banged most of the co workers there, and at jamba juice he was a shift leader and banged most of the girls there and he didn't think much of them besides just a piece of a$$. Only one girl there he truly liked, but idk. Everybody has skeletons in the closet it's how you react to that that counts.
sally4sara Posted May 24, 2010 Posted May 24, 2010 Whether you are a guy or a girl, you should have a right to express yourself sexually in the way that interests you. But the divide happens over there being healthy sexual expression and acting out without discretion. Some people are put off by boundaries that are beyond them. I'd never try to make a guy feel bad about his desires, but if his desires most often bring unfortunate circumstances or leave people emotionally wounded in his wake - I probably would consider him not someone I'd want to date or be involved with. In this way - maybe he is a slut? Maybe a slut has nothing to do with particular sexual acts or a certain number of partners or even the person's gender, but rather the maturity level of how they go about what they do?
Green Posted May 24, 2010 Posted May 24, 2010 Someone quote for me where the OP passed judgment on the girl in any way. Sounded to me like he was just getting others' perspective on the situation. It could be that in his own mind he's thinking "damn, this girl seems to get around", which is an opinion he's entitled to. But finding out what other people think about it isn't a bad thing. Ya I'm not an angel either, i've been freaky with 5 girls, and was never in a relationship with either of them, but I try to be fair with everything I do and I'm thinking about it like if I want to bone as many girls as i can should i pass judgement on the girls who do the same while being single? It would be hypocritical to say that she's a slut if I'm doing the same thing. But I mean society thinks this way, they think girls should not be allowed to express themselves sexually but this has been and is changing. Hotcarl asked for a quote for where the judgment was...and doomage listen up because here is a quote from " A little Princess" Miss Minchin: Don't tell me you still fancy yourself a princess? Child, look around you! Or better yet, look in the mirror. sara: I am a princess. All girls are. Even if they live in tiny old attics. Even if they dress in rags, even if they aren't pretty, or smart, or young. They're still princesses. All of us. Didn't your father ever tell you that? Didn't he?
SincereOnlineGuy Posted May 26, 2010 Posted May 26, 2010 Well a girl I was dating recently told me one night when we were talking about our past experiences that she had sex at her job in the back room with her shift leader, when seh worked at another bagel store location. I was kind of like damn, does that make her a slut? Nope, there's a rule that says sex in the back of a bagel store, involving at least one employee, exempts all involved from the label of slut. Especially if it is another bagel store location (aside from the one at which you're stationed while telling the tale on the internet)
Author doomage Posted May 26, 2010 Author Posted May 26, 2010 Nope, there's a rule that says sex in the back of a bagel store, involving at least one employee, exempts all involved from the label of slut. Especially if it is another bagel store location (aside from the one at which you're stationed while telling the tale on the internet) idk i was kind of shocked when she said that, but i guess she likes having sex lol i just thought she was all innocent, guess not.
homersheineken Posted May 26, 2010 Posted May 26, 2010 Well a girl I was dating recently told me one night when we were talking about our past experiences that she had sex at her job in the back room with her shift leader, when seh worked at another bagel store location. I was kind of like damn, does that make her a slut? Kind of got me jealous too. she said they did it when it was just them closing up the shop for the night. Plus she told me she had 10 partners now 11 i guess including me but i dont talk to her anymore so i don't know how many more but she is 21. any opinions? Heh. Reminds me of the Alanis Morrisette song where she asks "Will she go down on you in a theatre?" And I'm thinking, she better! :bunny:
StrangeCanine Posted May 26, 2010 Posted May 26, 2010 Well a girl I was dating recently told me one night when we were talking about our past experiences that she had sex at her job in the back room with her shift leader, when seh worked at another bagel store location. I was kind of like damn, does that make her a slut? Kind of got me jealous too. she said they did it when it was just them closing up the shop for the night. Plus she told me she had 10 partners now 11 i guess including me but i dont talk to her anymore so i don't know how many more but she is 21. any opinions? No that makes her sexually active, would you want a virgin filled with Chasity? The slut thing is a double standard, A man that has sex with a lot of partners isn't looked at as negatively as a woman. You should be honored she would tell you that, most women would keep that to themselves or discuss it with other women not men.
Brokendreams875 Posted May 26, 2010 Posted May 26, 2010 As long as she is clean WHO CARES. I hate that girls are called sluts all the time for the number of people they have been with yet guys are awesome for sleeping with more people. If a girl wants to sleep around for pleasure, its her body and she has every right. That does not make her any worse then someone whos only been with one person. I myself believe in waiting until a relationship is atleast official and I see nothing wrong with that either when people like to wait But if someone likes to sleep around so what?
Author doomage Posted May 26, 2010 Author Posted May 26, 2010 As long as she is clean WHO CARES. I hate that girls are called sluts all the time for the number of people they have been with yet guys are awesome for sleeping with more people. If a girl wants to sleep around for pleasure, its her body and she has every right. That does not make her any worse then someone whos only been with one person. I myself believe in waiting until a relationship is atleast official and I see nothing wrong with that either when people like to wait But if someone likes to sleep around so what? I respect her for telling me upfront about this, but she has hsv2 herpes, and even though she told me that i still stuck with her, but what i wonder is if she was a victim or because of her boning escapades she was bound to get it. don't know
marsle85 Posted May 26, 2010 Posted May 26, 2010 I'm pretty sure I've fantasized about getting it on at/in: my workplace back room* my swim team's pool rest areas/road trip/car/wagon/bicycle...etc. Ferris wheel limo (skeezy, I like it haha) canoe air mattress hot air balloon tree house in your office state park carwash rooftop I say go girl.
Author doomage Posted May 26, 2010 Author Posted May 26, 2010 I'm pretty sure I've fantasized about getting it on at/in: my workplace back room* my swim team's pool rest areas/road trip/car/wagon/bicycle...etc. Ferris wheel limo (skeezy, I like it haha) canoe air mattress hot air balloon tree house in your office state park carwash rooftop I say go girl. what stopped you?
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