robs Posted May 23, 2010 Posted May 23, 2010 My girl and i broke up 6 weeks ago now, my choice and i got it so wrong. Was finalizing divorce and it all got too much. For the last 6 weeks we have gone over and resolved all the problems we had. So no the road is clear to be together. BUT So far, we have only seen each other a couple of times a week. She is so guarded and reserved and will not give any commitment, in fact any discussion on how we are doing is off the agenda. She wants us to get back our friendship and then see. So now in front of her i'm being as relaxed as i can, and yesterday felt much better. But when we have no contact for a day or 2 it eats away at me. My view is i want to give her love and commitment, we have fixed the problems, so lets just go for it. Am i asking too much? Is it normal that she knows i'm dangling on a string, hoping for the chance. Would she still see me at all if it was truly over? I really need a girls view on this.....
lsb Posted May 23, 2010 Posted May 23, 2010 Sounds like she is thinking about it. Like, she wants your friendship to see if you changed or if things will get better I guess? She could also just still be recovering from the break up - kind of getting her emotions together. It probably is best, so you don't end up in the cycle of breaking up and getting back together. My advice would be not to rush her.
Author robs Posted May 24, 2010 Author Posted May 24, 2010 Thanks. Its just so difficult to not say too much. I don't want to ruin it. She is coming for a cup of tea later so fingers crossed that goes ok. Also i'm building her a kennel for her dog..to much???
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