mikeness101 Posted May 23, 2010 Posted May 23, 2010 I have HUGE issues when it comes to dating-any sexual relationship. The thing is..I've never had a girlfriend. Not only that, I've never done anything physical whatsoever with a girl. All the acquaintances and female friends I know have always rejected me. In fact a few of them (behind my backs) have said things like that I "couldn't get a drunken girl if I paid her a trillion dollars" etc. I don't know..I do have female and of course male friends (a few of them). I don't consider myself really that socially impaired. I'd like to ask and be asked questions as to what could possibly be going so drastically wrong...
xpaperxcutx Posted May 23, 2010 Posted May 23, 2010 Are you physically attractive? How tall are you? Do you initiate? What kind of girls do you usually go for? Where do you meet these girls? There could be alot of factors that could contribute to why you're able to get a girl. I would like you to list specifics. That would at least make things easier to analyze and figure out.
Ross PK Posted May 23, 2010 Posted May 23, 2010 If that's you in your avatar I would say it can't be anything to do with your looks. So maybe it's to do with your personality somehow.
Green Posted May 23, 2010 Posted May 23, 2010 I didn't have my first real kiss/gf until I was graduated from college and 22 years old. Just enjoy your life and don't be afraid to be yourself which includes having fun with girls asking them out and kissing them even if it means facing rejection
robs Posted May 23, 2010 Posted May 23, 2010 sounds like your problem is you are trying too hard. what i found out years ago, really helped me, not that i've known so many at all. try talking to girls that you don't find attractive. What you will find is that you will be yourself because, girls pick up on when you are on the make. So practice chatting to any women. Just ask normal questions, but open ones. Don't ask yes/no questions. Ask things that need more of a reply. But be yourself. You will find that when you do find someone that u find attractive, u will come over as yourself, not desperate guy. Its hard feeling rejected. So be confident and come across as being genuinely interested with everyone you meet. Hope it helps. Rob
legallyblonde289 Posted May 23, 2010 Posted May 23, 2010 If that's you in your avatar I would say it can't be anything to do with your looks. So maybe it's to do with your personality somehow. i agree, if thats you in your avatar, it has nothing to with your looks. you might be going after stuck up or bitchy girls (the ones that made that mean comment certainly were). if you try to be a fun person to be around, and don't take things so seriously, im sure your luck will improve.
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