Author FoxMulder Posted May 22, 2010 Author Posted May 22, 2010 C'mon people don't feel the troll it only makes them grow more powerful, make this the last post in the thread (except for any more by the TC) I'm not a troll. I am asking a serious question and all you do is result to name calling? If you don't have anything to say except I'm a troll then don't post in my threads.
FitChick Posted May 23, 2010 Posted May 23, 2010 What kind of women have you been dating? Blow-up dolls?
FitChick Posted May 23, 2010 Posted May 23, 2010 According to this article, that's not true http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-1213591/Not-tonight-dear-Im-tired-Headache-slips-list-reasons-avoid-sex.html
jthorne Posted May 23, 2010 Posted May 23, 2010 Perhaps you and the dude that posted the "all women are sluts" thread should get together and compare notes.
Rorschach Posted May 23, 2010 Posted May 23, 2010 oh come on guys you were doing so good, alright from this point on no feeding the troll. Aaaaaaaaand GO!
jthorne Posted May 23, 2010 Posted May 23, 2010 Me too. YES! sex is SUCH a chore! Sometimes, I just lay there and play dead. I hope he'll hurry up and get his nasty business done so I can finally go to sleep! THANK HEAVENS I only have to do it once a year!!
TrueDonJuan Posted May 23, 2010 Posted May 23, 2010 It depends woman to woman. Some woman love sex as much as men. Others can take it or leave it. The majority, however, fall into another category. They love sex, but only with the right person - be that someone emotionally or physically compadible. In this case, sex can be a chore if it's with someone who bores them.
marsle85 Posted May 23, 2010 Posted May 23, 2010 Sex is definitely a chore, and I HATE being multi-orgasmic. There's nothing worse than having to do chores by yourself, either.
Jersey Shortie Posted May 23, 2010 Posted May 23, 2010 Sex is great. But there are times when you aren't in the mood and it can feel like a chore. Sometimes, if you don't try new things, and both people always know what to expect, it can become mundane. But if you are having sex with women that just lay there, that aren't invovled, you need to talk to them about maybe sexually expressing themselves better.
Green Posted May 23, 2010 Posted May 23, 2010 Yes unless he is an affair partner or married man. You really made me laugh with this one... but maybe it was funny because its true But if you are having sex with women that just lay there, that aren't invovled, you need to talk to them about maybe sexually expressing themselves better. I would eventualy have to leave a woman like this
Lovelybird Posted May 23, 2010 Posted May 23, 2010 You really made me laugh with this one... but maybe it was funny because its true I would eventualy have to leave a woman like this I think there is a difference between east and west world about this. In the east world, we don't talk about that much how good sex is, it seems to us that if two persons love each other, and get married, the sex is a natural part of love expression, with time and practice, they will find a way to please each other. For many women there, they don't have much experience in that area before marriage. There is no way the woman would act like one who knows everything about sex in the very beginning. I don't hear people score one another, and then dump them because of that. Seems like western world like to score the people whom they say they love?
Hopeful30 Posted May 23, 2010 Posted May 23, 2010 Sometimes. Sex is really important to men, so a lot of times we have sex when we really don't want to. And its not true, woman initiate a lot of the time, they're either shy or not as attracted to you as you think. Besides a lot depends on her cycle. She is super horny during some days and completely turned off in others. It sucks for the guy but thats just how it is. As least for some women that I know.
Green Posted May 23, 2010 Posted May 23, 2010 I think there is a difference between east and west world about this. In the east world, we don't talk about that much how good sex is, it seems to us that if two persons love each other, and get married, the sex is a natural part of love expression, with time and practice, they will find a way to please each other. For many women there, they don't have much experience in that area before marriage. There is no way the woman would act like one who knows everything about sex in the very beginning. I don't hear people score one another, and then dump them because of that. Seems like western world like to score the people whom they say they love? If sex were a natural part of the love expression that would be great but manny women seem to seperate love and sex so do some men. I personaly do not when it comes to mariage or any other serouse relationship.
carhill Posted May 23, 2010 Posted May 23, 2010 Is sex a "chore" for women? Since women NEVER initiate sex and usually just lay there doing nothing, am I right in thinking that women actually hate sex and think it's disgusting and the only reason they do it is to please their man? Basicly for women it's just a chore. Having been married and in intimate relationships in the past, I never got the impression that, in general, sex was a 'chore' for women. That said, no outsider can read another's mind, so perhaps it was/is possible. For myself, sexual relations approached 'chore' status once the intimacy had left our marriage. Without intimacy, I really had no cogent connection to my wife and, for myself, sex is an expression of that connection. Other people have different perspectives. Sweeping generalities like 'all' or 'none' likely won't hold up in the long run. Keep asking young ladies out on dates. It'll all work out
brainygirl Posted May 23, 2010 Posted May 23, 2010 Is sex a chore, no, it shouldn't be. But if one partner is completely incaring and inconsiderate of the other it can be. When I was married my ex's attitude was that now I was HIS and he could pretty much demand sex or access when ever he wanted. I felt like I had been reduced to nothing more than a sex object. It wasn't sexy, it wasn't fun. It was just constantly having him at me all the time. That was an unhealthy relationship. I got out. In a healthy, loving relationship both partners are free to decline sex if they don't feel well, are sore from last time, are busy, or are exhausted. In such a relationship no partner would always be not in the mood.
LucreziaBorgia Posted May 23, 2010 Posted May 23, 2010 (edited) All trolling and kidding around aside, yes there are women who feel that sex is a chore and avoid it once they've locked a man down in a relationship. Just look at any number of men here or anywhere else who are in sexless marriages. Some women come around, so to speak but only with coercion, the threat of divorce or the threat of their husband finding another woman. Edited May 23, 2010 by LucreziaBorgia
Lovelybird Posted May 25, 2010 Posted May 25, 2010 Is sex a chore, no, it shouldn't be. But if one partner is completely incaring and inconsiderate of the other it can be. When I was married my ex's attitude was that now I was HIS and he could pretty much demand sex or access when ever he wanted. I felt like I had been reduced to nothing more than a sex object. It wasn't sexy, it wasn't fun. It was just constantly having him at me all the time. That was an unhealthy relationship. I got out. In a healthy, loving relationship both partners are free to decline sex if they don't feel well, are sore from last time, are busy, or are exhausted. In such a relationship no partner would always be not in the mood. I so agree with the bolded part. All trolling and kidding around aside, yes there are women who feel that sex is a chore and avoid it once they've locked a man down in a relationship. Just look at any number of men here or anywhere else who are in sexless marriages. Some women come around, so to speak but only with coercion, the threat of divorce or the threat of their husband finding another woman. And I think it should be a balance. Thinking about the women who are being courted in the beginning or just married, she is very passionate sexually toward her man. But after marriage, if the husband act like a insenstive and uncaring husband, should she still passionately engage in the sex? Shouldn't men find a way to go back to her heart first? I think it is ridiculous some men don't even want to commit to the woman, but he still has the guts to demand sex from her. Of course, sex sometimes would be a chore, only when she isn't in the mood, and why? Maybe men should find it out.
AD1980 Posted May 25, 2010 Posted May 25, 2010 (edited) Maybe for some but not for all, its a myth that Sex is more important to Men then women.. Ive seen more women leave otherwise good relationships just because the sex wasnt great then Men to be honest.. Edited May 25, 2010 by AD1980
summerl0vesyou Posted May 25, 2010 Posted May 25, 2010 maybe for the kind of girls u find. I love sex...usually more than my men..i wear them out. Hahaha.
bac Posted May 25, 2010 Posted May 25, 2010 Sometimes it is a chore. It depends on the situation and the people involved. It is a chore, if you do it with a guy who you do not like, or you are not horny at the moment, or you are with your partner who you have known for a long time, so you lost interest in him. IMO you refer to having sex with younger women. Some younger women do not know how to get pleasure from sex. They would be happy to enjoy sex but they can not feel that. At least, they can enjoy emotional connection during sex, attention and admiration from guys because they let the guys to have sex with them.
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