amythan Posted May 22, 2010 Posted May 22, 2010 Hi, i posted about this guy some time ago but now truth has been revealed and i am even more confused than ever. First of all it is honest to say that i like him. Very much. He makes me smile and laugh everyday and it was long time ago last time i felt something like that. The problem is I do not know what he wants. Plain and simple i am too scared to misunderstand everything and make a fool of myself. He works with me based in a different place. When he was here we were out together and everything was perfect. We spent hours talking, laughing and flirting. From this day we chat everyday (because he contacts me), he calls me silly names and he is always asking when he is going to see me again and why he did realize so late i am such a great girl. He told me he likes me and he says i am cute, sexy and sweet. He asked me for a picture and he says he wants me happy. He also cares about me. Now I have a serious problem and he is asking and reassuring me. And still ... i do not know what he wants. He has a girlfriend and he is not hiding it. I do not think our way to communicate is normal between "just friends" but am i getting everything wrong here ?? Is everything just in my head ? I do not want to be more attached to someone who is not interested but if he is not why he pursues me ? It seems way too much work just for sex .. I know he has a girlfriend and i do not plan to sleep with him but relationships are not always meant to last forever. Any advise or thoughts are appreciated, i am really confused ! Thank you !!
legallyblonde289 Posted May 22, 2010 Posted May 22, 2010 i would tell him, that you cant really talk to him until he breaks up with his girl. at the end of the day, if a guy cheats with you, he'll cheat on you. and the more attached you get to him, even if its not sexual, the worse you're going to feel if he doesnt break up with his gf.
fbislife Posted May 22, 2010 Posted May 22, 2010 Played. If he has a gf don't talk to him anymore. Trust me for a guy nothing is to much work for sex I know plenty of guys who would do anything short of killing there mother to bone a cute girl. If you really like him tell him it makes you uncomfortable talking to him while he has a gf.
Author amythan Posted May 22, 2010 Author Posted May 22, 2010 I know this is all wrong and I do not plan to go further if he has a girlfriend. I know i will get hurt if he was just having fun with me. But i do not know why he seems honest and caring. Perhaps you are right and he just want to get into my pants but .. wow i think i am kind of cute but still he can get other beautiful girls easily and who do not work with him. You are right i should stop this but I cannot tell him because what if he says, listen you are just making up all this thing and i am not interested .. Great, a real fool !!
legallyblonde289 Posted May 22, 2010 Posted May 22, 2010 well he told you he likes you and that you're sexy etc...so if he says he's not interested then he's still the dbag. but i still think he's just messing with your head. real MEN break up with their gf before talking to other girls. im sure his gf would be thrilled to learn he told you he likes you and initiates contact with you everyday.
sagetalk Posted May 22, 2010 Posted May 22, 2010 Why in the world are you talking to a guy with a GF? There are millions of single guys in the world, go find one.
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