brainygirl Posted June 6, 2010 Posted June 6, 2010 It looks like you missed the Sunday school and slept during biology class when they were talking about condoms. Thats why they don't want to seriously date you...you are bad student. There is not many single fathers I guess which would be the best option I suppose. But I'm sure some gentleman with his kids grown up will not mind. Actually I think you did good. It is better to have kids sooner then later. Now you are free to do the "career" thing without biological clock ticking pressure. Some girls wait till 30 (career they have is no big deal anyway), "enjoying" their youth, risk problematic pregnancy thanks to age and they end up single anyway... because they married a 30 yo coworker who just found out he is finally in demand on sex market. How are the kids? Do they behave? Maybe I was a bad student. But I'm not on welfare and I take care of my own business. My kids are good kids. They aren't perfect angels, but the 11 year old is responsible and the younger two are cute, none of them have overtly bratty habits. And more importantly, the men I date don't get to be around my kids, so its entirely moot what they kids are like.
DanielMadr Posted June 6, 2010 Posted June 6, 2010 Maybe I was a bad student. But I'm not on welfare and I take care of my own business. My kids are good kids. They aren't perfect angels, but the 11 year old is responsible and the younger two are cute, none of them have overtly bratty habits. And more importantly, the men I date don't get to be around my kids, so its entirely moot what they kids are like. That bad student thing was a joke. No disrespect. I'm sure you picked the father with all heart. It is shame and his minus he left. Sometimes it is better when exes don't bother their former SO but I can't get in my head how can someone not even want to see the kids. I hope he is paying for them at least. I'm happy to hear kids are doing fine. It is more important than anything else I suppose. However I'm sure you will find someone really good. You seem like a cool girl. Going to sleep now....can't miss the church tomorrow I'm Free Mason really;) Good night
brainygirl Posted June 6, 2010 Posted June 6, 2010 That bad student thing was a joke. No disrespect. I'm sure you picked the father with all heart. It is shame and his minus he left. Sometimes it is better when exes don't bother their former SO but I can't get in my head how can someone not even want to see the kids. I hope he is paying for them at least. I'm happy to hear kids are doing fine. It is more important than anything else I suppose. However I'm sure you will find someone really good. You seem like a cool girl. Going to sleep now....can't miss the church tomorrow I'm Free Mason really;) Good night Its eight thirty here, but I have a family picnic to go to and relatives to deal with tomorrow, so perhaps an early bedtime it a good idea. and i hear "you're a cool girl" a lot for someone who isn't in a relationship.
TooAccepting32 Posted June 6, 2010 Posted June 6, 2010 Body ) and I'm a woman. Maybe because I work out, but body for SURE. I could do muscular and strong with a bit of belly, or skinnyish if also muscular. Where do I put in my order?
D-Lish Posted June 6, 2010 Posted June 6, 2010 A face means everything to me- I'd take an average body and attractive face over an average face and hot body any day.
kittykat84 Posted June 6, 2010 Posted June 6, 2010 Personality determines attractiveness for me. A guy could be an Adonis but if he didn't have two braincells to knock together I would consider him ugly. I couldn't choose between face or body - I do have a preferred physical type in men - usually tall and skinny/lean - 6 foot and higher. With their face, the eyes matter most and their smile. I dunno - to turn my head they need to have all these things...past that it's all about their attitude. To show what I mean about their character being the biggest thing - consider my crush who I've known for a few years now....I didn't find him super hot until I knew what kind of person he was. Now he's absolutely irresistible to me. Helps that he's tall and lean with a wicked smile So it's a combination of factors that can't be narrowed down to a single physical attribute
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