FitChick Posted May 22, 2010 Posted May 22, 2010 I don't care what a guy's face looks like (unless he's the Elephant Man) but I like a slim and fit body. My friend says she can accept a pot belly if the guy has a handsome face because when they are in bed, he's usually covered up to his neck so looking at that face would turn her on. I am turned off by handsome faces because the word "player" always springs to mind. I know I am prejudiced, but that's been my experience. I will take a plain guy who values me over a handsome one always on the lookout for someone better or who always has women offering themselves. Why court trouble?
Author FitChick Posted May 22, 2010 Author Posted May 22, 2010 I like the way you think...heheheh... So which do you prefer -- a "butterface" or a pretty face, not so pretty body? On another forum, there was an informal poll for men over 45. Most said a nice body was more important in an older woman than an unlined face.
fbislife Posted May 22, 2010 Posted May 22, 2010 For me a guy good face with an average body is good. Or a really nice body with a average face. If a girl is really pretty but like 400 pounds I can't go out with her. And if a girl is ugly and has the best body in the world I still can't go out with her. Somewhere in the middle is always best.
USMCHokie Posted May 22, 2010 Posted May 22, 2010 So which do you prefer -- a "butterface" or a pretty face, not so pretty body? On another forum, there was an informal poll for men over 45. Most said a nice body was more important in an older woman than an unlined face. Well, the last time this topic was brought up, I said I'd take an average face with an average body...beggars can't be choosers... But my opinion is that most men would prefer the pretty body...
Twenty-ten Posted May 22, 2010 Posted May 22, 2010 FAce 1000 times over, unless he has a really chubby deformed body or too skinny but I can accept imperfections on body so long as he has a hot face. Face all the away.
USMCHokie Posted May 22, 2010 Posted May 22, 2010 Face all the away. And I would also assert that the general female consensus is priority on the face...
Twenty-ten Posted May 22, 2010 Posted May 22, 2010 And I would also assert that the general female consensus is priority on the face... A guy's face and the way his eyes look at me and his lips and what his overall face says to me gets me horny for him, not if his sixth rib it is perfectly toned. I could care less about that if he has an unattractive face. For me the emotional connection comes from the face (his voice, his speech his mind) not his butt. The stronger the emotional connection I have with a guy the hornier I am for him.
USMCHokie Posted May 22, 2010 Posted May 22, 2010 A guy's face and the way his eyes look at me and his lips and what his overall face says to me gets me horny for him, not if his sixth rib it is perfectly toned. I could care less about that if he has an unattractive face. For me the emotional connection comes from the face (his voice, his speech his mind) not his butt. The stronger the emotional connection I have with a guy the hornier I am for him. No, I agree with what you are saying. I intended no sarcasm in my previous post, if that is what you thought. Most women would also agree with you.
Author FitChick Posted May 22, 2010 Author Posted May 22, 2010 And I would also assert that the general female consensus is priority on the face... Well, since I am the opposite it means more men for me!
Twenty-ten Posted May 22, 2010 Posted May 22, 2010 No, I agree with what you are saying. I intended no sarcasm in my previous post, if that is what you thought. Most women would also agree with you. Sorry I was just explaining my point further that's all. Well, since I am the opposite it means more men for me! Does it? How many not so attractive men in the face have smoking bodies?
USMCHokie Posted May 22, 2010 Posted May 22, 2010 Does it? How many not so attractive men in the face have smoking bodies? ::raises hand:: No, just kidding. But not really. But seriously though, I feel I have a relatively better body than face...
Engadget Posted May 22, 2010 Posted May 22, 2010 Face is far more important. A good body can turn flabby, an attractive face won't suddenly turn ugly, unless they get really old but that's not an immediate concern. I don't know how anyone can pick body over face, body can be changed. Face can't
Feelin Frisky Posted May 22, 2010 Posted May 22, 2010 There are no absolutes. I know this girl who is so gorgeous but without that face she'd be a celulite tub. I overlook her bod because she's stunning. I dumped a few really good lookers who had it goin' on in both departments but I coudn't hack their breath. Bottom line? Don't though the baby out with the bath water.
Twenty-ten Posted May 22, 2010 Posted May 22, 2010 ::raises hand:: No, just kidding. But not really. But seriously though, I feel I have a relatively better body than face... Yeah but a "smoking" body? We are talking the opposite of a hot face and average body would be a smoking hot body and average face. Besides I bet your face is good, and you are being too harsh on yourself. There are a lot of very hot men who don't look like pretty boys, at least that is my take on it. They have super sexy faces. Obvious beauty is the least appealing to me. Look at Adrien Brody for example, he is not exactly a pretty boy but he has so much sex appeal. He is rather on the scrawny side but I would do him in a second. Perfect example of face better than body.
CLC2008 Posted May 22, 2010 Posted May 22, 2010 ::raises hand:: No, just kidding. But not really. But seriously though, I feel I have a relatively better body than face... Indecisive much? I think I am going to include that as my FB status update. Though, the other way around because my body is pretty flaccid these days.
Rorschach Posted May 22, 2010 Posted May 22, 2010 Yeah but a "smoking" body? We are talking the opposite of a hot face and average body would be a smoking hot body and average face. Besides I bet your face is good, and you are being too harsh on yourself. There are a lot of very hot men who don't look like pretty boys, at least that is my take on it. They have super sexy faces. Obvious beauty is the least appealing to me. Look at Adrien Brody for example, he is not exactly a pretty boy but he has so much sex appeal. He is rather on the scrawny side but I would do him in a second. Perfect example of face better than body. He has pictures in his profile, its pretty obvious he's just crazy and has low self esteem. Poor USMC, you're better than that!
Twenty-ten Posted May 22, 2010 Posted May 22, 2010 He has pictures in his profile, its pretty obvious he's just crazy and has low self esteem. Poor USMC, you're better than that! OH MY GOD I just looked at the profile pic, thanks for letting me know Rorschach. USMC, I sentence you to a week without LS posting and time spent admiring your face on pictures the mirror, and any chance you get. You are totally hot. Get outta' town will ya!
CLC2008 Posted May 22, 2010 Posted May 22, 2010 You just have to have a fun sense of humor and the rest will come together. I took this video when I was on vacation and these guys were totally cool for the simple fact that they were having fun being silly and didn't care what anyone thought.
Engadget Posted May 22, 2010 Posted May 22, 2010 You just have to have a fun sense of humor and the rest will come together. I took this video when I was on vacation and these guys were totally cool for the simple fact that they were having fun being silly and didn't care what anyone thought. Not as much fun as these guys. My friends make videos like this, and it's hilarious.
Author FitChick Posted May 22, 2010 Author Posted May 22, 2010 Does it? How many not so attractive men in the face have smoking bodies? You'd be surprised. Yes, you can change your face through good plastic surgery but that is expensive. These men have figured out that, if they couldn't afford surgery or didn't want it, they could change their bodies to become more desirable. Interestingly, I've noticed a large proportion of them are also bald and short. So they are doing what I advise -- ya gotta work with what you've got and make the best of it. Alternatively, you could just sit and whine that life is so unfair.
USMCHokie Posted May 23, 2010 Posted May 23, 2010 He has pictures in his profile, its pretty obvious he's just crazy and has low self esteem. Poor USMC, you're better than that! And you let the cat out of the bag...heh... I know, you're right...but it's been a strange week...even a strange month...eh... OH MY GOD I just looked at the profile pic, thanks for letting me know Rorschach. USMC, I sentence you to a week without LS posting and time spent admiring your face on pictures the mirror, and any chance you get. You are totally hot. Get outta' town will ya! Heh, thanks 20-10...
hoping2heal Posted May 23, 2010 Posted May 23, 2010 I agree with the poster who said body can be changed; face cannot. Face for me all the way.
gypsy_nicky Posted May 23, 2010 Posted May 23, 2010 I'd choose the face anyday (dose not mean choosing a really attractive one but one that is not ugly). Bodies are very easy to manipulate into being 'attractive' using exercise and diet. Face is very difficult to change, even with plastic surgery you can only go so far before you start looking synthetic/freaky. Also, even if your bodyweight drops, it will only affect the attractiveness of your face if you are extremely fat or if you tend to put fat on your face. Boobs are a different matter altogether.
rakhana Posted May 23, 2010 Posted May 23, 2010 It's weird, for me it's the voice and the way they interact. Confidence and being outgoing are almost deal breakers for me. On a purely physical level, I don't give a hoot about a "hot body", and seeing as how I'm heavy myself, a hot body actually ruins my interest because now I think "oh great, what's he going to think about me? He's out of my league, etc" I'm working on getting a hot body... But damn it takes a long time. I have a nice face though!
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