Lizzie60 Posted May 22, 2010 Posted May 22, 2010 This SG just left. He's in Germany for 2 years, for work. Tonite he told me he was in love with me.. and he said he will pay for my ticket to Germany this summer so I can visit him for as long as I want.. He frequently goes to Dubai for contracts, and he said he would take me all over Europe.. and Dubai.. or anywhere else I want to go... Humm... should I?
carhill Posted May 22, 2010 Posted May 22, 2010 You wouldn't have to ask me twice Hope you go and have fun. Life is short. Just think of all the hot guys you'll meet
tigressA Posted May 22, 2010 Posted May 22, 2010 gooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo!!!!! I second this!! :bunny:
skydiveaddict Posted May 22, 2010 Posted May 22, 2010 I'm not so sure Lizzie. he said he's in love with you. And if you dont feel any attraction to him I would say dont go.
zebracolors Posted May 22, 2010 Posted May 22, 2010 I'm not so sure Lizzie. he said he's in love with you. And if you dont feel any attraction to him I would say dont go. Yeah, if you go, go because you feel the same as him. Otherwise your lying to yourself and him. But I am confident that Lizzie has the wisdom to do what is in her instinct on this one. She is awesome:)
stepka Posted May 22, 2010 Posted May 22, 2010 Well yeah! Maybe they'll have the underwater hotel built in Dubai when you go.
marlena Posted May 22, 2010 Posted May 22, 2010 This SG just left. He's in Germany for 2 years, for work. Tonite he told me he was in love with me.. and he said he will pay for my ticket to Germany this summer so I can visit him for as long as I want.. He frequently goes to Dubai for contracts, and he said he would take me all over Europe.. and Dubai.. or anywhere else I want to go... Humm... should I? Lizzie, if you like the guy, by all means, go. If you don't like him all that much, just go to Europe by yourself or with a friend.
DiDi123 Posted May 22, 2010 Posted May 22, 2010 "This SG just left. He's in Germany for 2 years, for work. Tonite he told me he was in love with me.. and he said he will pay for my ticket to Germany this summer so I can visit him for as long as I want.. He frequently goes to Dubai for contracts, and he said he would take me all over Europe.. and Dubai.. or anywhere else I want to go... Humm... should I? :D" YES! Go and have a great time. Want company? lol....maybe he has a brother or friend for me?
Author Lizzie60 Posted May 22, 2010 Author Posted May 22, 2010 Sky nailed it.. I've been thinking about it after he left.. and I don't think I know him enough to go. I've known the guy for about 5 years but he's been coming for massages, only before he left for Germany last year, did it turned for more (at his request).. but I don't especially enjoy it all that much since I'm not that crazy about him for some reason, he's fairly attractive, extremely in shape... makes a looot of money.. very respectful (from what I've seen).. It's just.. I don't know.. I guess I'm a chicken shyt.. plus I don't really have time this summer.. I will be moving (hopefully) this coming June or July.
sagetalk Posted May 22, 2010 Posted May 22, 2010 It's just.. I don't know.. I guess I'm a chicken shyt.. plus I don't really have time this summer.. I will be moving (hopefully) this coming June or July. It's because he got ahead of you in the feelings department. That always turns women off.
Author Lizzie60 Posted May 22, 2010 Author Posted May 22, 2010 It's because he got ahead of you in the feelings department. That always turns women off. Nope .. not in this case, we have talked a little bit about that before.. and he knew I didn't have feelings for him.. We talked about it again last night.. he said he loved me, that I would be the ideal woman for him.. blablabla.. since he knows I want my independance and I will not live with a man (for now anyway).. I kind of knew he had some feelings for me.. but not as much per se.. But we had an honest talk.. he said 'OK.. we're not children.. let's tell it like it is'.. he's extremely intelligent... and very easy to talk to.
sagetalk Posted May 22, 2010 Posted May 22, 2010 Nope .. not in this case, we have talked a little bit about that before.. and he knew I didn't have feelings for him.. We talked about it again last night.. he said he loved me, that I would be the ideal woman for him.. blablabla.. since he knows I want my independance and I will not live with a man (for now anyway).. I kind of knew he had some feelings for me.. but not as much per se.. But we had an honest talk.. he said 'OK.. we're not children.. let's tell it like it is'.. he's extremely intelligent... and very easy to talk to. I honestly think you would probably like the guy, he's just screwing up. He's getting too mushy too fast. Instead of waiting for you get to where he is, he's just blurting it out. This is a fatal mistake.
Author Lizzie60 Posted May 22, 2010 Author Posted May 22, 2010 Naahh.. not really ... even if he was the most independant guy on the planet.. I'm just not that into him... that's all.. I've never been that interested in this guy... (he's not married.. )
Twenty-ten Posted May 22, 2010 Posted May 22, 2010 I honestly think you would probably like the guy, he's just screwing up. He's getting too mushy too fast. Instead of waiting for you get to where he is, he's just blurting it out. This is a fatal mistake. He's not too mushy too fast!!! I think you missed the point. I've known the guy for about 5 years but he's been coming for massages, only before he left for Germany last year, did it turned for more (at his request).. but I don't especially enjoy it all that much since I'm not that crazy about him for some reasonShe is just not into him. It doesn't matter how fast or slow he proceeds at this point, if after 5 years of knowing of him and a year of on-going contact (whatever contact they have) she is still not into him then she is simply not that into him. The answer seems obvious to me, don't accept the offer and make it clear to him you don't like him "like that"
jthorne Posted May 23, 2010 Posted May 23, 2010 But Dubai is sooooo awesome. I have a friend living there right now. She LOVES it!
FitChick Posted May 23, 2010 Posted May 23, 2010 You have nothing to lose. You might even like him since you will actually spend quality time together. Maybe tell him you want separate sleeping arrangements at least in the beginning. If you two hit it off, you always have the option of bunking with him. You might surprise yourself. I'm wondering what sorts of guys you normally date if you don't find this one attractive.
rakhana Posted May 23, 2010 Posted May 23, 2010 Duh, do it! Adventure time! Just keep your options open that's all. Like a previous poster said, imagine all the hot guys you'll encounter. If this guy isn't your thing, maybe you'll land yourself in a steamy little European rendezvous when he isn't looking. You'll have fun regardless, I'm sure. Do it, do it, do it!
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