Rorschach Posted May 22, 2010 Posted May 22, 2010 Something happened in highschool I just remembered. I was probably 17 at the time and I never got a girlfriend until 20 so I guess I might've been able to get involved with the fairer sex earlier but of course now it makes no difference. Anyway this is what happened somebody tell me what it meant. I never liked myself, I mean ever, looking back I wasn't that overweight in highschool (only like 20-30 pounds overweight, compared to the 100 pounds overweight I was in january) but I THOUGHT I was huge. So I never even tried to talk to a girl, I just figured what was the point. But one day I was standing in line at the salad bar when I feel something touch my ass. I figure somebody just brushed up against me by accident and ignored it but a second later somebody SLAPPED my ass. I turned around to see this girl in a basketball jersey kind of hurrying away. I was more than a little confused, I figured it was just some cruel game some highschool girl was playing but a couple days later again at lunch the same girl slapped my ass again and ran off. I never knew who she was and that was the last incident, she was really attractive though (would make me a pedophile now but at the time) so I figured she couldn't possibly be interested in me as I saw myself, but I never really knew what happened. So what is LS's consensus? Some weird kind of flirting or just somebody playing a cruel prank?
brainygirl Posted May 22, 2010 Posted May 22, 2010 high school girls sometimes resort to physical violence when they like people. Take it from a former high school girl and a current high teacher.
summerl0vesyou Posted May 22, 2010 Posted May 22, 2010 completely not sure to be honest.. i think the more important issue here is your self esteem issues. "fat" people can find, and do find, love too. And they deserve it just as much as the "muscular " "average" or "thin" do. There are women who would like you for who you are believe it or not. You have to believe it. and if you dont like being fat? Do something about it. I highly recommend calorie counting. When I lost weight, I became so proud of myself and I was like a man magnet! I started modelling even. Its your world, go get it.
Lakeside_runner Posted May 22, 2010 Posted May 22, 2010 You have to believe it. and if you dont like being fat? Do something about it. I highly recommend calorie counting. When I lost weight, I became so proud of myself and I was like a man magnet! I started modelling even. Its your world, go get it. Oh, he is doing. He is doing a lot! Good job Rorschach!!!
Author Rorschach Posted May 22, 2010 Author Posted May 22, 2010 completely not sure to be honest.. i think the more important issue here is your self esteem issues. "fat" people can find, and do find, love too. And they deserve it just as much as the "muscular " "average" or "thin" do. There are women who would like you for who you are believe it or not. You have to believe it. and if you dont like being fat? Do something about it. I highly recommend calorie counting. When I lost weight, I became so proud of myself and I was like a man magnet! I started modelling even. Its your world, go get it. Thanks lakeside. But yes he's right I've been doing something about it for about 4 months now, I've lost over 60 pounds of fat and gained an immeasurable amount of self confidence. So I'm well on my way:laugh:
ADF Posted May 22, 2010 Posted May 22, 2010 Sadly, it was probably closer to cruel prank. Some of her cronies probably dared her to do that. What a jerk.
summerl0vesyou Posted May 22, 2010 Posted May 22, 2010 Oh, he is doing. He is doing a lot! Good job Rorschach!!! oh great =) im new here, I wouldnt know. Keep up the good work buddy! I dont know why that girl did that back then, but youll have a lot to look forward to.
LucreziaBorgia Posted May 22, 2010 Posted May 22, 2010 I don't know that girls that age are really that forward when it comes to things like that. She may have been dared or pressured into doing that by someone else. I know my friends and I used to do that to each other in high school. I also know from experience that if you were the target, at least one of the involved parties was likely at least curious about you and satisfying that curiosity under the auspices of a 'dare'.
BeautifulMan Posted May 22, 2010 Posted May 22, 2010 A girl interested you wouldn't do that, especially two times in a row. The only girls who have the stones for that are cougars and girls who think they can get anything they want, besides they would stick around to see your reaction. But I could be wrong.
marsle85 Posted May 22, 2010 Posted May 22, 2010 No girl thinks about slapping her dream guy's butt. Sorry honey, I vote cruel prank. But the plus side is- you can show up to your 10 year reunion looking HOTTT.
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