djay Posted May 21, 2010 Posted May 21, 2010 this girl i really like and have been talking to seems to be hiding something. when i asked her if she still wants to talk because she see somthing in the future between us she said that she has been thinking a lot about it like everyday and is confused and doesnt know yet if it is good or bad.if it was another guy wouldnt it be easier to just tell me that then prolong the hurt? or is it sumthing else. she said she will give me a call when she gets an answer. should i have just told her to tell me then or just wait wouldnt it seem like she is running over me?
ADF Posted May 22, 2010 Posted May 22, 2010 Would it be easier to just tell you and not prolong the hurt? For you, yes. For her, no. And generally speaking, people tend to do what is easiest for them, regardless of how it affects others. That said, you really cannot say with certainty what is going on. In your own mind, set a time limit for her to give you a straight answer. If she cannot come up with one in a reasonable space of time, I would leave her alone.
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