mike1988 Posted May 21, 2010 Posted May 21, 2010 (edited) Okay, if I hear another person say not to go after "hot" girls because looks don't matter, I'll go nuts. There has to be some attraction and it seems I can really only attract women that are: A. Older women who think I should have girls pounding down my door, see me as the type of guy every woman desires and would want to marry, then use me for my well endowed man stick. B. Younger girls who are "too young" to date, 18-19 years old, ect. C. Women that aren't attractive at all physically to me. http://w2.socialhi.com/img/socialme/n/015/823/464.jpg That's me. I see myself as a confident, rugged outdoors man who has goals in life and I try to make myself look good. The only women who come out and tell me "OMG ur so hot" are girls who are usually not all that attractive. Does that mean the hot girls are holding it back in or that the unattractive girls are desperate. I sure hope I'm not the kind of guy women desire when they're desperate. Edited May 21, 2010 by mike1988
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ADF Posted May 22, 2010 Posted May 22, 2010 No reasonable person would deny that being physically attracted to someone is important. However, it is reasonable to question how much emphasis a person should put on it. Some people on here are really tortured because they've found someone with lots of great qualities, but they cannot get past the fact that person doesn't meet their rather exacting physical standards. Yet, they seem willing to put up with all kinds of horrible behavior, so long as the person behaving that way is really hot looking. This, in my opinion, is simply short-sighted and immature.
summerl0vesyou Posted May 22, 2010 Posted May 22, 2010 hahaha im going to go out on a limb and be the first b-tch on this thread. Id consider you pretty average at BEST. why are you being so superficial though? you know how easy it is for an attractive female to just do the same to you? That was my only point in the bitchiness part.. the tide can easily be turned. maybe you should find the qualities you LIKE instead of thinking of the flaws. and if you're born in 88, you're 21? 22? 18 or 19 isnt "undateable"...Id be more cautious maybe but you could be limiting yourself but automatically throwing them out based on age. There has to be some attraction...but someone doesnt have to be a 10. you're not, and you shouldnt expect it in someone else either. if you find one who wants you, then great. But I would try to be more decent and go based on a good personality who maybe has a cute smile, great eyes, etc instead of the whole package.
Green Posted May 22, 2010 Posted May 22, 2010 Okay, if I hear another person say not to go after "hot" girls because looks don't matter, I'll go nuts. There has to be some attraction and it seems I can really only attract women that are: A. Older women who think I should have girls pounding down my door, see me as the type of guy every woman desires and would want to marry, then use me for my well endowed man stick. B. Younger girls who are "too young" to date, 18-19 years old, ect. C. Women that aren't attractive at all physically to me. http://w2.socialhi.com/img/socialme/n/015/823/464.jpg That's me. I see myself as a confident, rugged outdoors man who has goals in life and I try to make myself look good. The only women who come out and tell me "OMG ur so hot" are girls who are usually not all that attractive. Does that mean the hot girls are holding it back in or that the unattractive girls are desperate. I sure hope I'm not the kind of guy women desire when they're desperate. Date women you are attracted too and it will all work out. A) Have you even had sex with these older women? B) Have you found these 18-19 year olds attractive and if so have you had sex with them or kissed them? C)If you are unattracted to some women why are you putting work into attracting them? You should only ask out women you find attractive... and just be complemented by women who find you attractive all on there own... nothing to be anoyed about.... I mean thats what women do... you know get anoyed when people they don't find attractive find them attractive. What you need to realize is as a man you CREATE the attraction in the woman you desire. YOU ARE THE ONE WHO IS SUPPOSED TO PICK A GIRL YOU LIKE AND CHASE HER, ASK HER, KISS HER WITH OUT ASKING JUST KISS HER AT THE END OF THE DATE... THE WOMEN GET TO DO THE REJECTING... YOU ARE AFRAID OF REJECTION This picture is more recent: http://w2.socialhi.com/img/socialme/n/015/792/968.jpg I would stop showing this picture to people... If you want to show yourself shirtless... then get a group picture of you and your friends at a pool party... or have some one take a picture of you by the pond with your shirt off while fishing... NOT THIS hahaha im going to go out on a limb and be the first b-tch on this thread. Id consider you pretty average at BEST. why are you being so superficial though? you know how easy it is for an attractive female to just do the same to you? That was my only point in the bitchiness part.. the tide can easily be turned. maybe you should find the qualities you LIKE instead of thinking of the flaws. and if you're born in 88, you're 21? 22? 18 or 19 isnt "undateable"...Id be more cautious maybe but you could be limiting yourself but automatically throwing them out based on age. There has to be some attraction...but someone doesnt have to be a 10. you're not, and you shouldnt expect it in someone else either. if you find one who wants you, then great. But I would try to be more decent and go based on a good personality who maybe has a cute smile, great eyes, etc instead of the whole package. I agree with your advice about 18,19 year olds not being young... Seriously he shouldn't be asking himself if girls are 10's... simply he should ask himself am I attracted to this girl.
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