Did I do the right thing?

[nolagurl07]

SO i have this guy friend that ive been friends with for 7 yrs. Ive secretly had feelings for him all this time. Hes in the army though and hes never really had a chance to live here and settle down hes either been stationed somewhere or overseas. Hes finally come home. Ive seen him about 3 times this past week. The other night we went out and saw a movie and got a drink. We both payed for our own movie but he payed for the drinks. He kept going on all night about how this is what just friends do they pay separately etc. Cuz that what you want just friends. It was like he was being sarcastic or something. When we were having drinks i told him i wished this was a date. He has told me before im not looking for a relationship right now. So i told him thats fine im not just gonna walk out ur life b/c ur not ready for that right now. He then said but if i was there would be no doubt that it would be you. I have slept with this guy a couple times in the past but not in the past few years. We were joking about how good our sex used to be and he started like picking a fite saying y dont u ever do what u want to do why r u so scared to say or do what u want. I know u want to have sex with me tonite cuz uve missed me and i miss u too but u keep saying no and i know u want to say yes. At the end of the nite, he kissed me and i kissed him back it felt so good i said its still there that thing b/w us all this time is still there cant u feel it and he said definetly. I didnt sleep with him that night i brought him back to his car and said goodnite. I told him we couldnt do that until he believes we will work out and hes ready. I feel like i did the right thing but i miss him i really wanted to sleep with him did i do the right thing by letting him walk away? Also, should i want for him to call me or should i call if he doesnt and act like everything cool. im so confused. im not mad at him for not being ready i mean he just got home hes trying to settle down and get his stuff straight its just ever since hes come home and ive seen him every feeling and every ounce of me has wanted to be with him. what do i do?