JeepGirl45 Posted May 21, 2010 Posted May 21, 2010 So I'm not sure how to interrupt anything my ex does now a days. And I wasn't sure if anyone could give me some advice. We were together on and off for 9 months. After we broke up he said he wanted to be friends, we talked for a couple weeks after breaking up. He then freaked out on me one night saying he wanted nothing to do with me. Then he got a new girlfriend a couple weeks later. They have recently broken up and he told me he was going to break up with her. Now he talks to me, and wants to hang out but only as friends. But he keeps giving me mixed messages. He calls me all the time. Wants to hang out, but only as friends he doesnt want to give me the wrong idea. Then he keeps reminding me about when we dated and the good times. Does this make ANY sense to anyone at all? And if anyone could help me out and give me some advice that'd be great!
ADF Posted May 22, 2010 Posted May 22, 2010 It makes perfect sense. He is ambivalent, uncertain in his own mind about what he wants. That is why his behavior towards you is so erratic. That said, I would take his claims to want to be "just friends" with a grain of salt. Men almost never bother befriending women unless they have the hots for them, and men who make a real effort to stay in touch with their ex's usually have a hidden agenda. My bet is that sooner or later, he'll try to lure you into some kind of FWB arrangement.
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