Every single women on earth is single by choice. Will prove inside.

[brainygirl]

1) Upper right hand corner

2) Ok, then why even respond?

3) All I needed was your city, or the general area, or a nearby city, I don't need your address obviously

4) So much for calling my bluff? It sounds like I actually called your bluff

 

Just as a reminded...

 

 

 

 

 

 

Not really

 

 

It wont let me PM people here, something about my membership.

 

I live within a driveable distance of joplin mo

[kdark]

Its funny that all these supposed average guys all insist that they will only approach, hit on, "hot" women. And yet, they admit that while they are alright, they aren't "hot". Funny isn't it?

 

It's more sad than funny.

 

Everyone wants a piece of the hot person pie, but if you can't bring something to the table, you aren't going to get it.

[brainygirl]

In multiple threads guys have complained that nice looking women ignore them. In insisting one "still very active" you have found a very PC way of saying "No fatties".

 

Considering the fact that teh average size for women is 14/16 in the US, putting a "must be thin" requirement out there seems to be counter productive.

[Lakeside_runner]

I refuse to think though that one should settle for less because of an average as a statistical measure. I was out biking an hour ago and I've seen so many sporty girls out there. I don't think all of them are taken. In fact in my running group, out of 8 girls I can think of, 4 are single. Yes they have a lot of options and probably have no problems finding dates but this means that they can choose and it is up to me to prove that I may be a good choice

[sweetjasmine]

In multiple threads guys have complained that nice looking women ignore them. In insisting one "still very active" you have found a very PC way of saying "No fatties".

 

Considering the fact that teh average size for women is 14/16 in the US, putting a "must be thin" requirement out there seems to be counter productive.

 

I don't know, I think "sporty and active" is more a lifestyle thing than a "must be skinny" thing. If I liked biking, running, swimming, hiking, and playing tennis, I wouldn't want to be in a serious relationship with someone who didn't like those things at all and would rather stay in.

[Lakeside_runner]

I don't know, I think "sporty and active" is more a lifestyle thing than a "must be skinny" thing. If I liked biking, running, swimming, hiking, and playing tennis, I wouldn't want to be in a serious relationship with someone who didn't like those things at all and would rather stay in.

 

In addition - these activities would actually help one loose excess weight. (This is a general statement).

[sweetjasmine]

In addition - these activities would actually help one loose excess weight. (This is a general statement).

 

Well, I just mean, if I were into running, biking, etc., I wouldn't want to date a person who doesn't like those activities and would rather stay in, regardless of how much they weighed. If outdoor activities and sports were important to me and my lifestyle, I wouldn't really get along with a couch potato (or even a gym rat who hates sports, for that matter) regardless of how much they weigh.

[brainygirl]

In addition - these activities would actually help one loose excess weight. (This is a general statement).

 

They are also activities that require time, money, and inclusion in certain social circles.

 

You can't make the group you are into very small and at the same time lament the fact that you can't get a date. Either be more open about who you will give a chance, or quit whining. (not that you are one of the whiners, but the point applies - they want a specific type of woman and ignore the others and then complain when they can't get a date)

[carhill]

It wont let me PM people here, something about my membership.

Four more days. Since this is a never to be repeated offer to set you up, you might consider choosing the one-month subscription for 2.50 so you can see your results immediately

[brainygirl]

Four more days. Since this is a never to be repeated offer to set you up, you might consider choosing the one-month subscription for 2.50 so you can see your results immediately

 

 

nah, I'll stick with the free sites and maybe the bar up the road on occasion

[Lakeside_runner]

They are also activities that require time, money, and inclusion in certain social circles.

 

You can't make the group you are into very small and at the same time lament the fact that you can't get a date. Either be more open about who you will give a chance, or quit whining. (not that you are one of the whiners, but the point applies - they want a specific type of woman and ignore the others and then complain when they can't get a date)

 

All this is true. But... If you want a specific type of a girl - go where you can meet this type of a girl!

 

First - YES! - quit whining because nobody likes a whiner.

Second - think hard about whom would you like to meet and where to do this.

Third - go out and meet them!

 

Correct me if I am wrong: Happy people attract people in general. If you're happy you want to do things that make you more happy and if these things involve a lot of other people it's a great way of making new acquaintances. The more people you meet (not only girls) the bigger your chances are of finding girls who you're looking for.

 

As for requirements - yes I'd like to have an athletic girlfriend. I am athletic and this is the type of people who I am attracted to. I think this is a reasonable thing - it's not like I require them to know calculus .

 

Requirements are a problem when there is a huge mismatch between what one wants and what one brings to the table. They are also a problem if the list is too long.

[SarahRose]

Ok ladies, time to show your cards. Any woman on this forum that is single does not have trouble with finding the right man, you are single by choice. And I will prove it.

 

I don't care how ridiculous your requirements are. Looks, height, wealth, etc. You can find it on the internet within a day at most. Require a male model? Done. Want a guy with a 5 bedroom house, a Mercedes, and a maid? Done. 6'4 and ripped? Done. Must like indie movies? Done.

 

I'm calling you out. I will guarantee you a date tomorrow night with the requirements of your choice. Post your stats, your pic, and exactly what you are looking for (physically, income level, interests, etc). Be as specific as possible and I will find it.

 

Finding a suitable companion take more than meeting external requirements on a check list. Women aren't like men who tend to hook up with the first girl that looks appealing to them with out any care about her personality, values, or anything else.

[brainygirl]

Finding a suitable companion take more than meeting external requirements on a check list. Women aren't like men who tend to hook up with the first girl that looks appealing to them with out any care about her personality, values, or anything else.

 

Plus I called his claim and haven't heard from him since. Its not as easy as he likes to claim.

[Pink Cupcakes]

don't wish to post a pic.

Fit - size six. Attractive (trust me on this one), age 42 female, 5'7"

Salary - $60,000 year

College-educated (Masters)

 

looking for a college educated guy who has a solid career. Would like him to be fit. I would say good looking, but I find guys other women don't think are good looking to be good looking.

Needs to be at least my height. I don't think this is asking for much.

[sweetjasmine]

Finding a suitable companion take more than meeting external requirements on a check list.

 

Plus, there's a difference between going on one date and being in an actual relationship with someone.

 

How does getting one date with some guy OpenGL found online count as not being single? Say he finds someone here a date. That doesn't mean that someone is suddenly not single anymore.

[SarahRose]

In multiple threads guys have complained that nice looking women ignore them. In insisting one "still very active" you have found a very PC way of saying "No fatties".

 

Considering the fact that teh average size for women is 14/16 in the US, putting a "must be thin" requirement out there seems to be counter productive.

 

And the guys with the super model requirements main activities are playing video games and wanking to porn!

[SarahRose]

Plus, there's a difference between going on one date and being in an actual relationship with someone.

 

How does getting one date with some guy OpenGL found online count as not being single? Say he finds someone here a date. That doesn't mean that someone is suddenly not single anymore.

 

Exactly. I guess these threads give in insight to how some males see things. I have never had an issue getting date since I was 16 years old.

 

I've never had an issue getting into a relationship if I wanted one either. Hell, I'm an old bag and still would have no problems finding someone unlike what all these alpha males claim that it is over for women after the age of 35. I am married right now to a much younger guy.

 

 

Hell my mother just turned 84 and she still gets hit on by the other widowers around town.

 

If I were ever to divorce, my issue would be whether or not I wanted a relationship or not because frankly having a man around all the time is usually more trouble than they are worth.

[Lakeside_runner]

And the guys with the super model requirements main activities are playing video games and wanking to porn!

 

I don't think I am asking for that much Here are two examples...

 

 

 

It's not like she's a supermodel or something... she's just someone who's an active runner

Edited May 22, 2010 by Lakeside_runner

[SarahRose]

I don't think I am asking for that much Here are two examples...

 

 

 

It's not like she's a supermodel or something... she's just someone who's an active runner

 

So are you involved in all the runner clubs and events in your area? When you go to a run and there are thousands of entrants I'd say you'd have a good chance of talking to runner girls.

 

I always thought of the hardcore female runner as the more feminist lesbian type but that is probably just my stereotype.

[sally4sara]

Nope, I can get her a date easy.

 

I'm calling BS. No one carries themselves that way unless they've been led to believe they are unwanted and insulted.

 

And if SHE doesn't like the way she looks, she likely won't find a guy counterpart desirable either.

 

As my husband says, dating success is all about punching in your "weight class". It isn't about how much you weigh either. Many things factor into what weight class you belong in. A light weight won't take down a heavy weight. And if a light weight is unsatisfied with being a light weight - they won't be satisfied by another light weight.

[Lakeside_runner]

So are you involved in all the runner clubs and events in your area? When you go to a run and there are thousands of entrants I'd say you'd have a good chance of talking to runner girls.

 

I always thought of the hardcore female runner as the more feminist lesbian type but that is probably just my stereotype.

 

Indeed I am. The only thing that prevents me from dating anyone at the moment is the fact that I'll be leaving MN soon for good and move to Los Angeles.

 

I agree that talking to girls after races is the most incredible thing to do. It's so easy! You just walk up and ask - "So, how did it go for you?". There are so many follow up questions like "Are you training for something?" or "Were you shooting for a time?" etc. I don't have a problem with keeping up a conversation with anyone since I am generally very curious about people but after a race it is amazingly easy to strike up a conversation with a stranger.

 

Running groups - yup, I am a member. Went out on a couple of dates just for fun because of the upcoming move. I didn't want to start anything serious before leaving.

 

I am really looking forward to the move! Everybody tells me I'm gonna love it out there since I love outdoors so much. Swim - bike - run, that's what I do

[brainygirl]

I'm calling BS. No one carries themselves that way unless they've been led to believe they are unwanted and insulted.

 

And if SHE doesn't like the way she looks, she likely won't find a guy counterpart desirable either.

 

As my husband says, dating success is all about punching in your "weight class". It isn't about how much you weigh either. Many things factor into what weight class you belong in. A light weight won't take down a heavy weight. And if a light weight is unsatisfied with being a light weight - they won't be satisfied by another light weight.

 

huh? please explain what you mean/

[SarahRose]

Indeed I am. The only thing that prevents me from dating anyone at the moment is the fact that I'll be leaving MN soon for good and move to Los Angeles.

 

I agree that talking to girls after races is the most incredible thing to do. It's so easy! You just walk up and ask - "So, how did it go for you?". There are so many follow up questions like "Are you training for something?" or "Were you shooting for a time?" etc. I don't have a problem with keeping up a conversation with anyone since I am generally very curious about people but after a race it is amazingly easy to strike up a conversation with a stranger.

 

Running groups - yup, I am a member. Went out on a couple of dates just for fun because of the upcoming move. I didn't want to start anything serious before leaving.

 

I am really looking forward to the move! Everybody tells me I'm gonna love it out there since I love outdoors so much. Swim - bike - run, that's what I do

 

 

Well it sounds like you'll be all set when you get there.

 

See you are actually doing something about finding someone rather than sitting around whinging about it. Good on ya.

 

Yeah I moved from Chicago to Australia and am loving the outdoor lifestyle. I don't miss the snow a bit. The beaches here are great and I have miles of bushland out my backyard to walk.

[Lakeside_runner]

Well it sounds like you'll be all set when you get there.

 

See you are actually doing something about finding someone rather than sitting around whinging about it. Good on ya.

 

This may be because I realized that dating is just a part of life. It can't be everything one does and thinking about how life sucks because one does not have a BF/GF at that particular time cannot take up all the time. Other thing is that I am an extremely goal oriented person. Once I know what I want (within reason of course) there is nothing that will stop me from getting it. Once I've pinned down the type that I find the most attractive it was easier to get into that circle.

 

Yeah I moved from Chicago to Australia and am loving the outdoor lifestyle. I don't miss the snow a bit. The beaches here are great and I have miles of bushland out my backyard to walk.

 

Gosh! I'm so jealous now!!!

[sally4sara]

huh? please explain what you mean/

 

Its a boxing analogy. Fighters only fight other fighters in their particular weight class.

It means if you are (by looks, intelligence, personality style, interests all combined) a 5, all you're going to get by chasing a 10 is pain, suffering, and failure.