Turk February Posted May 21, 2010 Posted May 21, 2010 Any guys feel the same? I just can't see myself settling down with one women till I've been with other types of women to get it out of my system. For instance, I've always wanted to be with a Japanese women but never got the chance. I mean what would happen if I got married before experiencing a Japanese women and than all of a sudden once I was married a Japanese women came in to my life and I had a chance. It wouldn't be fair to anyone.
St. Nick Posted May 21, 2010 Posted May 21, 2010 I used to. But then I got disillusioned over the idea that having sex with women of every ethnicity is going to make my life better. If I don't have sex with every ethnic group of women then I'll live. But do not let me stop you. I say go for it, actually. As far as I know, the best place to find a Japanese woman of easy virtue is Roppongi. Look it up. That's where all the foreigners go to have a good time in Japan. However, seriously watch cuz that place is a little seedy and has a bad reputation.
You'reasian Posted May 21, 2010 Posted May 21, 2010 Any guys feel the same? I just can't see myself settling down with one women till I've been with other types of women to get it out of my system. For instance, I've always wanted to be with a Japanese women but never got the chance. I mean what would happen if I got married before experiencing a Japanese women and than all of a sudden once I was married a Japanese women came in to my life and I had a chance. It wouldn't be fair to anyone. A buddy of mine in his 30's has experienced alot of different kinds of women... Asian, Black, Latin, Arab, European, tall, short, thin, curvy...etc What he found was that getting married is about connecting with an awesome person: awesome in the sense that he found someone that he finds beautiful, intelligent, loyal, caring and irreplaceable..... And he decided not to settle until he found that woman.
SarahRose Posted May 21, 2010 Posted May 21, 2010 You could marry an ethnic woman and have that experience
marlena Posted May 21, 2010 Posted May 21, 2010 You could marry an ethnic woman and have that experience What the heck is an ethnic woman?
Rorschach Posted May 21, 2010 Posted May 21, 2010 I've only been in one relationship in my life, she was not attractive physically to me. Since we broke up I made the decision to lose alot of weight and make myself a hot attractive guy (which I see less as a matter of genetics and more a matter of hard work and dedication). While I am not a shallow person I HAVE made the decision that I want to be physically involved with somebody who I deem very attractive before I have another long term relationship. When I'm looking for long term relationship material physical beauty plays a part, but a small one. But my testosterone and curiosity want to be sated as to what it's like to sleep with a (for lack of better term) 'hottie'. So I guess i sort of feel the same, but I just need one good woman not a checklist, and if for whatever reason I couldn't find that women before I settled down it wouldn't even cross my mind to have second thoughts.
sally4sara Posted May 21, 2010 Posted May 21, 2010 It depends on what you consider "experience". Cuz if you're just talking about sex, last time I checked - they're all human and their plumbing is the same. Their difference isn't limited to their ethnicity. And as well, your reference to a woman of a particular ethnicity popping in after you marry? No matter when or to who you marry, there will still be women different from the one you married or the ones you "experienced" before marriage. Maybe marriage just isn't for you?
Rorschach Posted May 21, 2010 Posted May 21, 2010 It depends on what you consider "experience". Cuz if you're just talking about sex, last time I checked - they're all human and their plumbing is the same. Their difference isn't limited to their ethnicity. And as well, your reference to a woman of a particular ethnicity popping in after you marry? No matter when or to who you marry, there will still be women different from the one you married or the ones you "experienced" before marriage. Maybe marriage just isn't for you? well I know its not really directed at me but I can say that the idea of having sex with an ugly woman and having sex with a beautiful woman despite having the same plumbing is a very different experience. Some men regard different ethnicities as different types of beauty, almost like different kinds of ice cream flavors I'm not one of those guys really all ethnicities strike me pretty much the same way, but I can understand how each 'experience' would be different.
SilentVoice Posted May 21, 2010 Posted May 21, 2010 You sound like me..but I am a woman. And I am not to sure what an "ethnic man" is.
You'reasian Posted May 21, 2010 Posted May 21, 2010 You could marry an ethnic woman and have that experience I agree... The point I was getting at is that my buddy went out and experienced all these different kinds of women and what he found was that certain characteristics meant more to him than ethnicity.
SarahRose Posted May 21, 2010 Posted May 21, 2010 It depends on what you consider "experience". Cuz if you're just talking about sex, last time I checked - they're all human and their plumbing is the same. Their difference isn't limited to their ethnicity. And as well, your reference to a woman of a particular ethnicity popping in after you marry? No matter when or to who you marry, there will still be women different from the one you married or the ones you "experienced" before marriage. Maybe marriage just isn't for you? Yeah the variety is highly overrated. I slept with lots of different guys back in the 70s and you know I hardly even remember any of them let alone anything about the sex. It's almost like they don't even exist now. They all had penises and most were lousy in bed.
Author Turk February Posted May 21, 2010 Author Posted May 21, 2010 A buddy of mine in his 30's has experienced alot of different kinds of women... Asian, Black, Latin, Arab, European, tall, short, thin, curvy...etc What he found was that getting married is about connecting with an awesome person: awesome in the sense that he found someone that he finds beautiful, intelligent, loyal, caring and irreplaceable..... And he decided not to settle until he found that woman. Kind of made my point, after he was with all those women he was ready to settle down. He lived it up and had an awesome time, If he never did it would he have come to the same conclusion. Its almost like a person who travels a lot to see the world and have different experiences.
OpenGL Posted May 21, 2010 Posted May 21, 2010 Been with every ethnicity except Mexican. It's the same ****.
Author Turk February Posted May 21, 2010 Author Posted May 21, 2010 You could marry an ethnic woman and have that experience Yeah but If I marry a Japanese women, I would still want to have experienced a Indian girl or a Pacific Islander women for instance.
SarahRose Posted May 21, 2010 Posted May 21, 2010 Yeah but If I marry a Japanese women, I would still want to have experienced a Indian girl or a Pacific Islander women for instance. Well just get about $2000 and get 20 different hookers and you goal is met. Have you had any sex at all with a woman?
You'reasian Posted May 21, 2010 Posted May 21, 2010 (edited) Kind of made my point, after he was with all those women he was ready to settle down. He lived it up and had an awesome time, If he never did it would he have come to the same conclusion. Its almost like a person who travels a lot to see the world and have different experiences. Getting in relationships with women of different ethnicities could be a good experience. For instance, I've had friends travel to other countries where women take really good care of themselves (physically), are somewhat more family centered and guy friendly; likewise I've had (lady) friends travel to other countries where guys didn't mind wooing a woman romantically and financially for a short period of time and then move on to his other wives because it would be improper for his religion to marry hers etc. win-win Variety of experiences helps fine tune what it is the person wants. Edited May 21, 2010 by You'reasian
Author Turk February Posted May 21, 2010 Author Posted May 21, 2010 Getting in relationships with women of different ethnicities could be a good experience. For instance, I've had friends travel to other countries where women take really good care of themselves (physically), are somewhat more family centered and guy friendly; likewise I've had (lady) friends travel to other countries where guys didn't mind wooing a woman romantically and financially for a short period of time and then move on to his other wives because it would be improper for his religion to marry hers etc. win-win Variety of experiences helps fine tune what it is the person wants. I agree with this, I don't want just an Asian woman but an Asian woman thats not American, or at least an Asian American woman with only Asian friends. American society is beginning to ruin Asian women.
You'reasian Posted May 21, 2010 Posted May 21, 2010 I agree with this, I don't want just an Asian woman but an Asian woman thats not American, or at least an Asian American woman with only Asian friends. American society is beginning to ruin Asian women. You said Asian five times. Don't assume? Am I Asian? No...You'reasian
Engadget Posted May 21, 2010 Posted May 21, 2010 I'd like to meet some non-American women for sure. Mostly for the accents
You'reasian Posted May 21, 2010 Posted May 21, 2010 I'd like to meet some non-American women for sure. Mostly for the accents You would get used to the accent, then you've got to deal with the personality, beliefs etc.
Author Turk February Posted May 21, 2010 Author Posted May 21, 2010 I'd like to meet some non-American women for sure. Mostly for the accents Same here, I even like women who barely speak english.
marsle85 Posted May 21, 2010 Posted May 21, 2010 This is very interesting. When I think of potential sexual partners- I steer AWAY from those I couldn't see myself in a relationship with. While I cannot say I would never date someone from a different ethnic group, I very well may- my dream guy is my ethnicity. I think this is a natural response. However, am I wrong in believing men would look down on a woman for her diverse range of ethnic sexual partners?
Engadget Posted May 21, 2010 Posted May 21, 2010 This is very interesting. When I think of potential sexual partners- I steer AWAY from those I couldn't see myself in a relationship with. While I cannot say I would never date someone from a different ethnic group, I very well may- my dream guy is my ethnicity. I think this is a natural response. However, am I wrong in believing men would look down on a woman for her diverse range of ethnic sexual partners? I'll tell you that many white guys look down on women who date or prefer black men. I don't really care either way, but many guys are like that.
You'reasian Posted May 21, 2010 Posted May 21, 2010 (edited) I'll tell you that many white guys look down on women who date or prefer black men. I don't really care either way, but many guys are like that. Perfect opportunity for a main-stream white guy to seem exotic, if he does his homework. Oh and my buddy has also dated women like that too. Edited May 21, 2010 by You'reasian
sally4sara Posted May 22, 2010 Posted May 22, 2010 Same here, I even like women who barely speak english. Which goes a long way to answering me about what you are calling "experience" when you say you want to experience ethnic women. You have little interest in them in the way where their ethnicity would come into play. For that, you'd care to be able to communicate with them. You just want to use them sexuality because you seem to think their ethnic difference is in their body. How old are you Turk? A simple freshman health class should have remedied this.
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