cafe267 Posted May 21, 2010 Posted May 21, 2010 I have a delicate situation with my ex but generally speaking...once a woman has emotionally shut down and decided to cut you out of her life...whether she still has/had feelings up until that point...is there anything other than time that can get her to actually see the facts and look at things somewhat rationally? you know when they hate you for everything you do good/bad etc.. My ex has this incredibly warped view of things right now and the tiniest things at the end here were setting her off...i've done everything she demanded of me for a 2nd chance back in dec. yet i went away for a month and now she's just shut down... she's doing things that go completely against her moral fibers like trying now to remove me from our child's life. (she's from a broken home and has always spoken of the importance of fathers regardless of the situation) And also the fact that she won't give us that 2nd chance which she preached about being committed to giving. (she is around her x2 single mom constantly who i know has been subtle, yet effective in her influence) Is it pointless at this point to state in writing that she's completely contradicting everything she's ever held dear? Any way to promote thought and get a woman who's shut down thinking more clearly again?
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