alvina Posted May 21, 2010 Posted May 21, 2010 SO me and this guy...very good friends...he showed alot of interest in me and i showed alot of interest in him...we spent ALOT of time together and it was obvious we were interested in eachother...but never spoke about anything about what was going on He kissed me then...he said he doesnt know how he feels, denied that anything was ever going on....cried (with tears) about hurting me and said its not you its me BS We kinda spoke for like a week it was awkward...so i went to his place to have a chat with him....he said things like hes not sure what was going on between us, hes not sure what emotions hes feeling, he thought we were just friends, hes scared of relationships etc etc Its been 12 days...i asked him for space....neither of us have spoken to eachother, we saw eachother twice....around university....both times i acted very cool both times he acted awkward and flustered and tried to play it cool but went a bit over the top. The problem is.....i cannot stop thinking about him, i have a constant pain in my chest which i assume is some sort of heart break and i have exams in 5 days and i just cannot concentrate at all. Should i just text him? the reasons for me not contacting him is because i wanted to increase my value in his eyes and show him im not just some ego boosting machine he can play with and with some hope he would miss me and when i eventually did start being friends with him again i could regain the interest. The connection we had was amazing it was an intellectual and physical attraction. I really want to fight for it.
ADF Posted May 22, 2010 Posted May 22, 2010 Sounds to me like he might be fishing for some kind of FWB nonsense.
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