MissJane Posted May 21, 2010 Posted May 21, 2010 My boyfriend and I havnt been getting on at all basically our relationship is hitting rock bottom.we don't talk and we don't act like we are a couple either so last night I looked through his phone and saw pictures of girls and notice that he has been talking to them too.the girls are off a dating website too,deep down I feel like I should end the relationship help
ScaredHubby Posted May 22, 2010 Posted May 22, 2010 If you aren't getting along and don't act like a couple, are you really? Or are you just hanging on for the sake of having someone? Think hard on that, because if it's just to have someone, it really doesn't sound like you still have each other.
brokenheart1 Posted May 22, 2010 Posted May 22, 2010 let him go, it'll hurt now but better for the long run. do you see a future? if not? move on.
Livelovelearn Posted May 24, 2010 Posted May 24, 2010 My boyfriend and I havnt been getting on at all basically our relationship is hitting rock bottom.we don't talk and we don't act like we are a couple either so last night I looked through his phone and saw pictures of girls and notice that he has been talking to them too.the girls are off a dating website too,deep down I feel like I should end the relationship help Miss Jane I read one of your previous posts, and i see you too have had the problem with your bf on dating sites. Well guess what my ex boyfriend was on POF! it was crazy he would go on whenever we had problems and put his profile up until he got to the point where he knew i was searching up for his profile on it, he didnt care if i came across it. He would make excuses and then say he was mad. I told him i felt like he was looking for something better but he said that wasnt the case. Anyway we been together for about 3 years and it was the last couple of months that he was pulling away and going on this site. Anyway i recently found out that he met a girl off the site and they began dating after only 2 weeks! and he was still with me but fully neglecting me. He is losing interest and holding onto you until he is sure he has something worth pursuing. I love my ex and i wish it worked but he wasnt into me any more so i recently accepted it and decided to do NC. and i think you should just leave him alone and start doing no contact. Dont even explain y u are doing it, he wont care. Just move on, please i am hurting right now and if you wait till he breaks up with you like i did in my situation, it will kill any confidence you have left!
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