JohnDavidTheFirst Posted May 21, 2010 Posted May 21, 2010 A month ago, this woman I was courting and I ended things after six months because we fought a lot. It wasn't long - I'd say a week after the fact - that she texted me to see how I'm doing and if I miss her. Funny thing was she told me when we parted ways not to get a hold of her (she always suggested to never question a potentially good moment). Anyway, we ended up talking for an hour. I brought up making amends, and she said to take things slow. Fast forward to a few days later. I learned that the reason why she texted me out of the blue last week was not because she wanted to work things out again, but she was honestly bored. Also, she treated me like crap during the time we were supposed to repair things so I left her once more. No way in Hell am I going to be someone's last resort! Thus the title of this thread. Intelligent, insightful responses welcome.
magda Posted May 21, 2010 Posted May 21, 2010 If you did assess the situation correctly, and she was just bored, and she treated you like crap, I would say it's a good thing you ended it again. 6 months is a reasonably long time in a relationship. Regardless of any love and future being there, it's hard to lose a friend sometimes. It's happened to me before after breaking up with someone that I knew I didn't want to be with, I'd think a thought and think "that's the sort of thing I would tell ___" and then you might imagine that you miss them on another level but it's more like withdrawals. That's one of my theories - don't know if it applies to her.
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