How do you all feel bout having alot of male friends while in a relationship?

[18inlove]

Im now 19 my boyfriend 31, and I have ALOT of male friends from highschool and we text/myspace/facebook alot. I tell them I miss em and love em, but they are just my friends. I love my boyfriend but he doesnt really like the idea considering he dont talk to other girls.

How do you all feel bout this am I being disrespectful?

[skydiveaddict]

I think you're ok with it. tell your bf yo lighten up

[Toki]

Potential Competition makes some insecure men feel suspicious, sounds like a possible control freak.

[Lauriebell82]

Potential Competition makes some insecure men feel suspicious, sounds like a possible control freak.

 

Her other threads go into more detail about her boyfriend. He definately sounds insecure.

 

I don't know, I think if my fiance left messages for female friends of facebook saying that he missed and loved them I wouldn't be too happy..even if they were just friends.

 

If I were you I would just not post it on facebook or where he could go and actually look. And ease up on that talk to if it bothers him..be respectful.

[Krytie TV]

He sounds like a classic "teen hunter". This is what you get with a 30+ dating a 19 year old.

[Green]

I would dump you

[Engadget]

It depends entirely. As we all know the majority of men are friends with women because there's some sort of attraction there. However if I trusted my gf enough, it wouldn't be an issue.

[somedude81]

Im now 19 my boyfriend 31, and I have ALOT of male friends from highschool and we text/myspace/facebook alot. I tell them I miss em and love em, but they are just my friends. I love my boyfriend but he doesnt really like the idea considering he dont talk to other girls.

How do you all feel bout this am I being disrespectful?

How many of those guy friends would hook up with you given the chance? How often do you hang out with your guy friends?

[sally4sara]

Her other threads go into more detail about her boyfriend. He definately sounds insecure.

 

And from what she says about him, he has every reason to be insecure. He doesn't have much to offer.

[ADF]

You're not being disrespectful. My bet is that your BF, like a lot of men who date much younger women, has some serious domination and control issues. He is afraid of losing you to someone your own age, and wants to cut you off from your friends to appease his insecurity. Don't let him.