summerl0vesyou Posted May 21, 2010 Posted May 21, 2010 (edited) I joined a dating website(which Im now regretting). I met two guys and we had a good time on our 1st dates. There were no kisses on these dates but both guys wanted to see me again and one has made plans, while the other is being wishy-washy. ive been texting with both pretty much everyday, by both of their initiating. Anyway, you can see when people have last logged in. Everytime I look, it shows that they have been on the site and it makes me kinda jealous. Im feeling sorta insecure, like "who else are they into? who else are they talking to and seeing? was i not good enough/why not?" I dont like that whole element..but I cant help looking. I know one date isnt enough for someone to just stop looking usually, but still...it kinda bothers me. It just makes me feel like Im not good enough, If they are still logging in, is it fair to assume they are still looking for someone else? Edited May 21, 2010 by summerl0vesyou
Arabella Posted May 21, 2010 Posted May 21, 2010 I would say it's fairly safe to assume, given that YOU are doing the same thing to them. Apparently neither of them was "good enough" for you to stop looking at the site and went on to schedule dates with the other guy. Arabella
Author summerl0vesyou Posted May 21, 2010 Author Posted May 21, 2010 Props on that reply. I actually started talking to them both at the same time and scheduled both of them before I even met one of them. So i followed thru and met both of them. I definitely am more interested in just the one, but havent continued to look for anyone else
marsle85 Posted May 21, 2010 Posted May 21, 2010 Jealousy looks good on no one. Try looking at it in a different direction; if the guys DO choose you, you know they think of you as a huge catch. If not, it doesn't matter- you're not going to date him, nothing you can do. This is small stuff.
Author summerl0vesyou Posted May 21, 2010 Author Posted May 21, 2010 Ok, really? I just asked a question. Im not trying to be a hypocrite. I just wanted to know if its safe to assume that they are still looking for other people. IM NOT LOOKING. I made plans with both of them before even meeting one of them. Im also not saying theres anything wrong with them looking. lets just let this thread die, I cant delete it.
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