skydiveaddict Posted May 21, 2010 Posted May 21, 2010 Is there anything you can do to get your ex out of your mind? I mean I have tried everything, but even after six months, she wont leave my mind. I must be going crazy
Author skydiveaddict Posted May 21, 2010 Author Posted May 21, 2010 nine months? I don't think I could handle that, how do you do it?
USMCHokie Posted May 21, 2010 Posted May 21, 2010 nine months? I don't think I could handle that, how do you do it? I don't...I sit in my room every night listening to the song of the week on repeat whilst wasting away on LS...I haven't gone out in over a month...I jacked up my shoulder last weekend and haven't worked out all week...the isolation is starting to drive me crazy...I complain but do nothing about it...so you could say that I'm a bit of a mess at the moment...but not necessarily directly because of the ex...she just contributes a little bit...
Author skydiveaddict Posted May 21, 2010 Author Posted May 21, 2010 sorry about your shoulder dude should clear up soon I hope. I just dont know why I miss her so much tonight.
USMCHokie Posted May 21, 2010 Posted May 21, 2010 sorry about your shoulder dude should clear up soon I hope. I just dont know why I miss her so much tonight. Thanks, I hope so too...and I know what you mean...it's like some nights are somehow worse than others...I tend to get this way over long stretches of no social contact...yay...
Author skydiveaddict Posted May 21, 2010 Author Posted May 21, 2010 stay busy. hobbies, volunteer etc. works every time. yes ,I am working on those things. Been trying to skydive as much as possible. It helps. Just tonight is difficult for some reason
Author skydiveaddict Posted May 21, 2010 Author Posted May 21, 2010 Thanks, I hope so too...and I know what you mean...it's like some nights are somehow worse than others...I tend to get this way over long stretches of no social contact...yay... It's cause you haven't been lifting.
Author skydiveaddict Posted May 21, 2010 Author Posted May 21, 2010 This is how I've felt for the last three years. well come on join our pity party
USMCHokie Posted May 21, 2010 Posted May 21, 2010 well come on join our pity party Heh, I was yelled at enough at my last pity party...no more pity parties...
Author skydiveaddict Posted May 21, 2010 Author Posted May 21, 2010 just a figure of speech devil dog
GrayClouds Posted May 21, 2010 Posted May 21, 2010 I find hard drugs, heavy alcohol, and random sex turn out to be not as helpful as one would want to believe. So whats left is the occasional sleepless night and sleep can be overrated too.
Nikki Sahagin Posted May 21, 2010 Posted May 21, 2010 A year and he's still stuck in my head. I don't know if its a problem with me or that the relationship was just that special to me. Probably both.
Citizen Erased Posted May 21, 2010 Posted May 21, 2010 If it helps, you seem like a VERY different person from when you first joined. You may still miss her but you're not the same person you were back then. You are doing a lot better than some, at least you're out there doing something you enjoy. You're entitled to as much time as you need, everyone is. Just don't allow it to consume you. Just my opinion anyway.
Minnie09 Posted May 21, 2010 Posted May 21, 2010 I am in the same boat. Can't cope, can't forget, keep obsessing. Obsessing about how he wronged me, how he could do the bad things to me and our son... Blahblah. I'm not interested in other men, the mere thought of dating makes me vomit, and I can't even stand people. I hate social events and being around people. They make me cry. I can't tolerate happy, bubbly, friendly people around me. I want to live in a cave. Ughhhhhhh
Nikki Sahagin Posted May 21, 2010 Posted May 21, 2010 I am in the same boat. Can't cope, can't forget, keep obsessing. Obsessing about how he wronged me, how he could do the bad things to me and our son... Blahblah. I'm not interested in other men, the mere thought of dating makes me vomit, and I can't even stand people. I hate social events and being around people. They make me cry. I can't tolerate happy, bubbly, friendly people around me. I want to live in a cave. Ughhhhhhh You do not understand how much I can relate to this.
cdt76 Posted May 21, 2010 Posted May 21, 2010 Hokie, I know what you are going through. I have lost 15 friends, all that I had. I go out on dates but they are empty and emotionless. I work out, keep busy with stupid activities that involve no thought and here I am 10 months later, still pissed and wanting and just like another wrote here, think that the relationship meant so much to me that letting go completely is like cutting out my own heart. I'm in a better place today. The anger has subsided a little. But at the end of the day, it's me alone with a lap top computer searching for the one thing that will solve the mystery of my broken heart.
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