Star Gazer Posted May 21, 2010 Posted May 21, 2010 I'm like the center of her life right now. She is? She isn't acting like it. : she is not changing what she does. It is one of her two best friends and she greatly respects the guy an says they are like the same people.. She was acting all crazy talking like this guy is more important. I mentioned this and she said no but she has known me for 4 months and 3 years for him.
Eeyore79 Posted May 21, 2010 Posted May 21, 2010 I think you should tell her that she has to choose between you and this guy... either she stops seeing him or your relationship is over. If she still refuses to stop seeing him, you know where her priorities lie, and you should dump her!
BetterOffWithoutYou Posted May 21, 2010 Posted May 21, 2010 i think you need to let her know that you are not trying to end the friendship, but you don't want her to spend time alone with him. if she objects there is a problem. i can't help but feel that she is distancing herself because she is afraid of an ultimatum. but that's what you need to give her. if she is really serious that she loves you and wants a future with you then this other "friend" will be easy to let go of. if not then she still has feelings for him...and that's dangerous. the whole situation seems sketchy!!! i hope you can get down to it and find out what is really going on...
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