wjg23g Posted May 21, 2010 Posted May 21, 2010 Hey LS, my friend forwarded me this email exchange he had with a girl in his class after he left a message asking her out to dinner: Her: Hey X! I just got your message. Thanks for the invite but I don't think I can join you. I don't really think its a good idea to date someone that I go to school with after everything that's happened. Mary and I are having a bbq next week w/ a bunch of people and you should come! Him: I'm not too familiar with your situation, but i find it strange that you'd rule out a group of people w potentially similar interests/goals whom u don't know because of a bad experience. i could be wrong, & sorry if i am, but my guess is that ur sugar-coating that u have no interest. either way, doesn't seem like it'd do much good to try & change your mind. have a good one He said he's unaware of "everything that's happened," other than that she had a falling out w/ her previous boyfriend in our class. He's also good friends with some of her friends. Should he apologize, or are things okay?
alphamale Posted May 21, 2010 Posted May 21, 2010 Should he apologize, or are things okay? no he should not apologize and things are not ok
brainygirl Posted May 21, 2010 Posted May 21, 2010 I don't think he needs to apologize, but I doubt he has a chance. He asked her out, she declined, so he basically told her she was a moron for not wanting to date college students. Lame. So Lame.
phineas Posted May 21, 2010 Posted May 21, 2010 sounds like a straight shooter. He's not interested in being just friends. it's her right to choose not to date him. But, he also reserves the right not to be friends with her.
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