donnamaybe Posted May 21, 2010 Posted May 21, 2010 Yes because only guys with positive attitudes get women I guess all you need to get women is a positive attitude so says loveshacks Tony Robbins.. Green Doesnt matter if shes not physically attrcted to you or anyhting else if you think positive women will just flock to you:rolleyes: I met this guy once years ago who, at first sight, didn't do a thing for me. In fact, he was more than a little overweight and just very average looking - nothing appealing stood out at all. Then we started talking. His attitude, sense of humor, and likeability TOTALLY won me over! He was a REALLY good kisser.
sweetjasmine Posted May 21, 2010 Posted May 21, 2010 Why do u have to use extremes? Im a pretty positive in life generally,i dont do well with women so in that part of my life im insecure..Its dellusional to think you can be overly positive in a certain aspect of life where youve had nothing but failure and no positive feedback.. Doesnt mean i hate women at all or life just means in one aspect of life im insecure and unconfident becasue ive has no sucess in that field..Im tryign to work on it but im sorry just telling soemobdy to be positive is much easier said then done esepcially when you arent in that persons situation.. I was using extremes to make a point. Yes, it's extremely difficult to be positive when you're insecure about something and have no positive feedback. It's a catch-22: you're insecure, and it tends to show, so when you approach someone, they pick up on it, and you get a bad reaction, which makes you even more insecure. But you have to start somewhere, and IMO, people should work on themselves and fix their self-esteem first. If you're happy with who you are, you'll think you're worth someone else's time and attention, and they'll pick up on it. Seeking attention from the opposite sex as a way to fix your self-esteem doesn't work.
You'reasian Posted May 21, 2010 Posted May 21, 2010 Why is it that women don't like boring losers who feel sorry for themselves? I mean why do all the guys with posotive attitudes who know how to have a good time seem to get all the women? Hey boy! Don't you get too big for your britches...jk. Other dudes are gonna start judging you when they see you with all the ladies lol
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