schoel Posted May 20, 2010 Posted May 20, 2010 posted a few times on here about my break with girl of 3 years. she has kept me at a particular distance of course since we broke up 7 weeks ago, i pull back also and then she jumps right back to me with calls and such. we have been in constant contact.......3 of the weeks she was in another city staying at her older sisters and working 13 hour days. she has told me she loves me but not in that way right now, but then has also said that she has wanted to start working things out between us...particularly our issues that just seemed to occur, disappear, then reappear. question is, should i just ask her to start working on this again? have you all tried that.....it's like she wants to but she told me she is just burying her feelings right now.......should i just ask...
BetterOffWithoutYou Posted May 21, 2010 Posted May 21, 2010 if she isn't in love with you then i don't think it will ever work. also what are these issues? and do things seem to be great and then she suddenly brings up issues you thought you were past? i think i need a lil more info to be more helpful...
GrayClouds Posted May 21, 2010 Posted May 21, 2010 posted a few times on here about my break with girl of 3 years. she has kept me at a particular distance of course since we broke up 7 weeks ago, i pull back also and then she jumps right back to me with calls and such. we have been in constant contact.......3 of the weeks she was in another city staying at her older sisters and working 13 hour days. she has told me she loves me but not in that way right now, but then has also said that she has wanted to start working things out between us...particularly our issues that just seemed to occur, disappear, then reappear. question is, should i just ask her to start working on this again? have you all tried that.....it's like she wants to but she told me she is just burying her feelings right now.......should i just ask... Hate to say it but it sound to me she has her eyes on someone else and keeping you on the hook just in case it does not work out with the new one. Even if that is not the case you need to show her you know your own worth and you do that by telling her until she is ready to completely commit to the realtionship, work on the problems together she should avoid contacting you. You deserve someone who does not have to think about loving you. Unless you believe that she never will. Take care of yourself.
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